Is it normal for young girls to be attracted to old men

im 22 and i am into a 48 years old man who has kids but he's single. i tried to ignore the feeling but i couldn't. i think about him every night and all day and though he's old and grey but yet i find him very attractive.
i've had this feeling for over a year now and i haven't told anyone about it
also..im virgin and i have not dated anyone before
is it normal?
should i let go of it?

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Based on 90 votes (77 yes)
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  • randypete

    old guys make better lovers

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  • Lollypop33

    You're 22 so you're a grown woman not a young girl. I was having my daughter with my husband not much older than that. My husband who is older than me may I add. Do what makes you happy! Has he given you any indication he likes you back?

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  • johnpartridge

    Yes, it's normal for young girls to be into proper men. You, however, are not a young girl. You're a woman.

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    • Baldie

      Yes exactly right... Very misleading title, however I've found that most girls enjoy older men.

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      • johnpartridge

        And yet such girls are discriminated against by law (close-in-age exemptions to age of consent legislation, which suggest that a girl's capacity to give informed consent is not contingent upon her own maturity or development but instead contingent upon the chronological age of her partner).

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        • Baldie

          Definitely share your opinion facts need to be a case by case basis.

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          • Baldie

            Yes authoritys need to be more diligent before anything else

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          • johnpartridge

            Some punk keeps voting down my comment though, so not everyone agrees. Clearly common sense isn't common.

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  • kittylitter

    Show him your kitty cat,I'm sure he would love that!!!

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  • (s)aint

    To each their own. You are old enough to be considered a young woman. You both might be on different places in your lives so a relationship might not work out, have sex with him if you want. I think it´s a safe and secure bet to make sure your first time is with someone who really appreciates it.
    Pussy doesn´t exactly rain down on old dudes.

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  • dytrog

    It's not unusual for young women to be attracted to older men. They know how to treat a woman better when dating. They have learned the right words. What happens later may be much diff. What happened to his first wife? Why is she gone?

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    • ella_k

      i don't know
      he never talk about his private life

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      • dytrog

        I would like to know about his past. Look how old you will be when he is 70. Find someone you can spend a lifetime with. I got married at 22 my wife was 21. That was 44+ years ago.

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  • kristys_mail

    I'm going to say it's prabably normal to at least have a crush on older guys. I like Keanu Reeves but he's a celebrity. I can't imagine dating an old guy though.

    My former best friend got with a pretty old guy. She was 18 and he was 36. We're not close anymore and I never got the relationship but I found out through the grapevine that he got with someone even younger (an underage girl) when she was in early 20's. Yuck on the underage thing.

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  • misslonglegs

    U could treat him as a sugar daddy example Anna Nicole

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  • HillaryCunton666

    I have been into way older guys since before I became of age. Although, I didn't lose my virginity (or do anything at all with a man) until I was 18.

    I almost met an older guy from online once. I was 19 and he was in his late 50's/early 60's. We didn't end up meeting because we couldn't find a time that we were both available. Now looking back, I wish we could have. That would have been hot!

    Although I am totally against incest with an actual blood/step relative, I do think the daddy/daughter grandpa/granddaughter role play with a stranger is hot.

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  • eatmetoo

    When I was 22 and younger I didn't care about age that much. Some young guy's could fuck all night. Some didn't know what they were doing. It was kinda the same with guy's in their 40's 50's Some were a good fuck some came in 3 min. So age usually in favor of the young. They can get hard fast after a fuck and it is a longer fuck. But I wasn't looking for anything else.

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  • I married my wife when she was 19 years of age and can tell you that she was always fancying have sex with older guys. We have a very open marriage and she started having sex with my approval at 22 years old with older guys in their 40's. She used to tell me all about it, how good they were and then when she came home with a pussy full of their cum we had amazing sex. It's funny how tables turn as she is now in her 40's and loves having sex with the younger guys in their 20's. She still comes home after nights out filled with their cum and she can't wait to get her hands on me and have me add to the load she has in her pussy. So in answer to your question yes it is normal to be attracted to older men.

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  • xfg31

    22 is about a decade too old

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    • johnpartridge

      I think it's legally permissible to trade her in for two 11-year-olds.

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      • dytrog

        She should trade him for 2 24 year olds.

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        • johnpartridge

          That would be a valid course of action. I can't exactly criticize her age preference, though, given that mine is non-standard.

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  • asslickers

    40's isnt old.
    Are you using him for a Sugar Daddy ?

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  • SirChazwickEsquire

    It is normal to want to be with this man. He is the perfect age for you. He probably has kids that are not much younger than you..maybe he has an attractive 18 year old son. You could be with the dad and secretly have an affair with his son on the side.

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    • ella_k

      but i dont want to have an affair
      and his son is 16

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  • hgjukbjk

    Ur gay

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