Is it normal for friend to say they're afraid of what you're capable of?
I don't understand this but had this friend we hang out in groups but we grew closer and we talk every day we've been friends for a while. Asked them to hang out just them and me and they said no I asked why they said i wasnt going to like the reason.
They told me they're afraid of being alone with me because they don't fully trust me and think I'm capable of doing something harmful to them which really scares me because we have known each other years and we grew so close like I said we talk every day and they hang out alone with so many people but they said this to me and I said haha nice joke and they said they were serious and that they don't trust being alone with me.
I'm a female mind you and I've never been told this before. I'm so confused and I'm so sad because it's like here I was thinking I had a friend and then they tell me they don't even trust me and don't want to be alone with me. He's a straight guy, I'm a straight female and I don't get it. I asked what does he think I'll do and he said he thinks I'm capable of attacking him.
What the heck is this? I'm so confused. I was never mean to him once, I'm always polite I don't understand this. I feel so weird.
Is this normal?