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Is it normal for hot women, or even semi cute women too to look at the nice guys as someone just to use and take advantage of?
Most attractive women is nice too. And most nice guys also taking advantage of them if they want their body but not offering anything for them. Ppl should both like each other, these broken type relationships never really last, especially if the attractive woman is not able to satisfy the nice guy.
exactly. this OP is the stereotypical self-proclaimed "niceguy". the way he specifies "hot" and "semi-cute" makes it obvious his first priority is getting off, so why shouldn't they get something out of him too? he must not have much to offer in the way of pleasure, so they are going for something else. lol
My priority is not getting off, it's getting respect. You saying that being nice is not having much to offer in the way of pleasure? What about having a sense of humor? I have that to, I try to joke around with women, but for some reason, getting them to smile or laugh is what I'm having trouble doing. You think you could answer that?
Then why does it matter if they are cute or hot?
If youre having trouble making them smile or laugh then youre either not as nice or humorous as you think, or youre hanging out with the wrong type for you.
What's the wrong type for me? If women are finding me as ugly as I think they are, then me being ugly is the reason the attractive women are not the right type for me, right? Good looking women want nothing to do with ugly guys, that's a fact. I'm just not 100% sure if that's actually the reason I have problems getting positive attention from them.
Attractive woman are like every other woman, but more simple in some ways. treat her like a normal person and she will respect you, but if you want something more than friendship you need to make it clear soon. If you just want to make them laugh, treat them like you treat your friends. :P
Maybe your perception of women is only skin deep? Women can be very perceptive, perhaps they can sense how shallow you are a mile away? I can't help but to notice that the only thing you mention about women is their physical appearance. You have not made mention of the importance of a woman's intelligence, personality, wit and wisdom?
I honestly don't know if you are beautiful or ugly, or where in the middle you might rank, and to tell you the truth I don't care, because you sound quite lacking on the inner beauty. Regardless of where you rank on a hotness scale of 1 to 10 what exactly is wrong with you going with a woman who is your equal? So if you are are a 5 or 6 you would date a 5 or 6. What would be wrong with you dating a female version of yourself?
Wrong type - girls who don't share your sense of humor or appreciate your "niceness". Girls who are shallow, etc.
Although, if this is not a troll post, you are probably pretty shallow yourself for only going after the "good looking" ones. If you only want those who are good-looking, why shouldn't they want the same?
Being funny can be serious business. Maybe it's your material, your timing, or your delivery, etc? People, especially hot chicks, aren't obligated to laugh at bad jokes just to be nice or polite.
I've sometimes noticed that how funny a joke is is not about what the joke is but it's more about who's telling it. I've noticed good looking guys say things totally bland and unfunny and the women crack up, then I've noticed less attractive guys, like me say something truly creative and funny and the women look at me with a blank or serious look like they just want me to fuck off. It's all about looks.
i have to pay a nice looking women for sex? couldnt i just pleasure them without buying them shit? ill promise to pleasure them often as they want.
gittin taken advantage of is voluntary
if yall treats hot womens like everyone else and assume theys tryinta git somethin outta yall this wont happen
the ones what are useda shakin theys ass and gittin theys way git all pissy when treated normal so yall knows yall made the right call
Yes it's completely normal. All women use men to the fullest extent that they can. It's part of their DNA to be parasitic.
No you old piece of shit. We offer WAY much to the work force and to society than men. 65& of the work force is woman and they only get 10& of the money. Plus woman have way more expenses, any real man gives everything to his woman. That is why you will die alone! Because you were always an UGLY insane SICK "man" ( who looked like a shit from a cow that someone step on and smashed it. HAHAHA) Go die now. There was never any reason for you to be alive. All your life was an endless torture and a lost lonely journey.... to hell.... haaha
Not normal but not uncommon either. It's definitely a two way street. I've seen both men and women take advantage of, and use each other for various reasons. I've had women use me just to get to my sexy inflatable toys, dammit, stop it you gosh darn bitches. They have feelings too.
Not normal, and a pretty selfish thing to do. I have trouble understanding why so many think it's normal. Though I guess it's the guy's responsibility to know what he's getting himself into.
... but if the guy is so shallow as to be only concerned with the woman's physical appearance then honestly what should he expect? Birds of a feather flock together, so perhaps a shallow man who is only concerned with appearance may very well attract or be attracted to an equally shallow woman who is only concerned with material things. On the inside they are birds of a feather. A cake that is nearly all icing and very little cake may be very sweet and enticing, but has little nutrition and is a recipe for a tummy ache.