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Sex has never been fully satisfying and mostly it does not appeal to me. Masturbation is even less appealing, and always has been. Pornography just makes me uncomfortable. I find people sexually appealing, emotionally and physically. Yet I could honestly live the rest of my life without it. Is this normal?
I feel the same. But I've found the one person who I like. So I call myself (my lovers name) sexual because everyone else turns me off and so does porn and masturbation.
I find myself with this problem slightly different. I'm content with out having sex. I rarely bring it up guys want to sleep with me I feel pressure then I just do it and turn into a freak. Then after if just felt like a job and there's no emotions.
I voted yes...but I'm not really sure whether this is normal or not...I'm a Christian male...53 years old...and I believe God planted the "sexual desires" in us...but at the same time...I don't necessarily think of people who simply just don't get turned on by it as deviant...these days...pretty women still draw my attention (I'm single...never been married) but I generally lean towards those with Christian values and personality rather than just having looks...and I personally have found that how a woman looks to me is often shaped by that personality...not that an unappealing girl physically will look magically gorgeous because of their personality (this is not the movie Shallow Hal, after all) but she can be appealing to me because of that personality...while a physically desirable girl that...let's say...has less than a sterling personality can look much less desirable than her looks would otherwise suggest...and there are some who just don't find other sexually appealing...while not completely normal...is not...in my opinion...completely not normal either...
I am an Evangelical Christian as well. But I've come to realize that I just don't seem to view sex as important, rather as one of the closest forms of a connection you can have with another being, and I have found the person of which I feel I would have an even better connection mentally as opposed to physically.