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Is it normal for women to hold men to such high standards , when they themselves are not on the level they hold men to
There are a lot of women in the world looking for Mr. Perfect who aren't exactly MS. Perfect themselves. They want to be saved by their wealthy, handsome, charismatic prince when they are an overweight, grouchy, lazy, broke, unintelligent slouch with no goals or ambitions other than to be taken care of in life by a man who is out of their league.
And then there's the other side. Some men think that they have a chance with some jiggly little 20 year old prom queen nympho when they are just a 60 year old broke assed beer bellied smelly codger with psoriasis.
People often want what's out of their league, it's human nature.
Your right! We always look and are attracted to people outof our league. But I have realized something in life , there’s no such thing.
If you have the ability to talk chances are either the woman or the guy is going to say yes or no. People judge without knowing the person on the inside. Usually beautiful women means drama; you just don’t know it yet because you haven’t seen the inside yet and vice versa. People who look extremely good usually are just that, extreme!
As a female myself I know that a lot of women expect the men they are dating to be perfect even when they themselves are not. I used to be this way when I was younger until i realized it was absolutely crazy to think like that! No one is perfect.
I agree. I hung with lots of females and watched them and their standards and would always ask them “ how can you want a man to have this and that, when yourself don’t have it”. So basically what do you have to offer besides good looks!
I bet "females" love hanging out with you. Do you ever ask the men you hang out with the same question? Because we all know this problem is much worse with men than it is with women. You always see average looking guys who dry ass personalities and no future holding out for perfect tens, then complaining when those women don't want anything to do with them. Or is it okay when they do it?
Yes and here’s where the double standard lies. It goes back to calling women a ho. Well is men we are more of a ho than women are. The reason women look so bad when they do these things is because we hold women to a higher standard and put them on pedestals.
Most of the men have know are old friends i here up and their mentality of women is just fucked up. Growing up in a city will do that to you. Fortunately I’m the one percent that made it out the projects and out the good and traveled the world so of course my views are different from theirs. But I do understand why they think how they think.
People have to leave their environment in order to see there’s a whole world out here. Not just your neighborhood. Women are different from state to state and country to country. But one would have to get out there to witness this first hand.
This reminds me of men and women I've known who wanted hard working, rich people with perfect bodies when they themselves were broke, lazy, and had doughy bodies. Then when they didn't get what they wanted they got bitter and went on about how "men are dogs" and "women are bitches." They bash the opposite gender every chance they get. If they had realistic standards, they would've had someone by now. I noticed that people tend to do this on dating sites too. People tell me it's human nature, but I think people just wind up hurting themselves more by doing this.
I try to impress this upon my room mate who is lesbian.
Women tend to want a perfect partner to fall into their laps. You do the slightest infraction in front of a date and she is instantly turned off.
But yeah it is pretty normal for people in general to think they deserve more than what they themselves can give.
I get that people want more. But if your living your life and doing all the things you should be doing which are positive chances are you’ll come across someone traveling on the same path.
People are attracted to other people not on their path and that’s where the problems start.
The problem most women have is their standards are way too low, not too high.
Very interesting. I think you might be right in some cases. Those low standard females are single though. They continuously chase the wrong men. My sister in law is one of them. Very beautiful, but the men she’s attracted to are losers. I tell her she’s deserves better but it’s like she’s on spin cycle.
It's funny you said that. My sister and I were recently talking about a girl from school who had it all going for her; artistic ability, looks, and a good personality. But she liked the bad boy type and married one. He's an ugly unskilled loser with so many dui's that he literally hasn't had a license for 35 years. He can't hold a job and is a drunk and drug addict. He has cheated on her numerous times and she always takes him back. The guy she left for this loser had a successful career in the Navy and now owns several businesses in Louisiana. Some women sure know how to pick am.
I dated a female like this when I was younger. Very beautiful and liked street guys. Long story short , her ex use to beat on her , cheated on her and fathered three children with three different women.
She broke up with me , got back with him, got pregnant, and now complains everyday on Facebook of her her baby daddy ain’t shit. I can’t make this stuff up!
I mean it’s not normal but most women do it. My current girl friend is kinda like that but I’m slowly showing her what she is doing. She’s starting to understand.
Some do, but some don't. Just keep looking for the right person. Girls are a very diverse bunch overall.
Guess you've had a difficult date life...
Sure, some women have absurd requirements for a man, but those are usually golddiggers that just want money and the occasional fuck, but most women are not like this.
But in a way it's normal... If you were a woman, would you want to be with some fat, nerdy slob that plays video games all day, smokes pot, eats microwave sandwiches and works at mcdonalds? No, you'd want the good looking guy with the flashy car in the suit, on the phone about business expansion, that clearly knows what he's doing. Women need security in their life. If you can't provide, they won't abide.
Lol! No. These are just questions I’m throwing out there to hear what people are thinking. By no means am I personally going through this , nor have I’ve gone through this.
Actually, I’m the guy that was always dating a married woman wondering why they were cheating on their husband.
I don’t think you’d want the flashy guy. Flashy men are just that , flashy! They have no intention on being in a relationship. In fact they are just living and messing around with whoever boosting up their ego.
Now, the man that is serious would be willing to do whatever for that woman. Just because a man can provide doesn’t mean he is indeed that man. Because he to could be dating multiple woman.
It is the theory of natural selection, the female wants the genes that will produce the offspring most likely continue to reproduce. this is regardless of the health of the female. They are trying to make men better or not let their genes reproduce
You beat me to it. Of course it's normal. People always try to choose partners that look better/healthier than themselves.
It's a basic biological urge we have no control over. We feel that way even if it's not politically correct to feel that way 😂
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