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We were supposed to meet two weekend’s ago, she wasn’t feeling well and canceled Saturday and Sunday. When I texted her during the week it took her long to reply. She lost her job last well and I asked her if she would like me to see her, she said wait until, then she canceled. And she canceled her plans for today and I haven’t texted her back.
Sounds like she is having a rough go of it. Try to give her some space. Sometimes we just need to regroup.
not so cool of her , but i do believe its super important in these times to give space and only meet her half way. which it sounds like your doing by not texting. imo you should definitely not give too many signals that you are crazy about her or way in love with her at this time. Would help to know how long you two have been together because that can change things. obviously if enough time passes you should try and contact but id really try to balance it , you wanna imply that she is losing you a great thing and that her actions are making you lose interest and that she has to work a bit for you to stay around.
Ditch her, now. Avoidance usually means they're up to something. Check her social media for hints at other guys, lack of interest in you, or general depression. Job loss does hit some people hard, but also..Gives them time to play around while you're being responsible and working. Don't be taken for a fool.
If she wont give you the time of day like that. Then respect yourself and your self worth and try to not over extend your care. If she wants to talk then be there, if not no need to hurt yourself for her sake.
It sounds like you're not her boyfriend.
It sounds like she's hiding something, but I could be totally wrong here.
Geeze I would have dumped your ass long ago. Try calling her and actually speaking to her instead of texting. Better yet, get off your lazy ass, go see her at her place and have a real conversation and interaction.
Some people are just flakes.
Though it seems to be the norm, it is annoying.