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When I see a hot/attractive girl or woman, I can't help but think about her father. How he knew that his daughter was attractive but it would be wrong for him to have have incest fantasies about her, and how jealous he might be of random guys, just like me, trying to flirt with her and get in her pants.
No, its basically the same thing your wife has, if she does exist that is.
rotflmao. Don't quit your day job.
I find it interesting that the ones who give me the most flack on here about being married to a woman close to their age, are the ones who can't get laid at all!
Jealousy is so unbecoming.
No, I do get laid. And they aren't 40 some years younger than me.
Jealousy is what people in denial call those who point out their ridiculous situation btw.
Hahaha, *shaking my head*. Firstly, there's nothing wrong with fucking a girl that is 42 years your junior when your granddaughter is 43 years your junior. What is strange is this. Most people have a perceptive sense of the mature sexuality projected by a same age couple in their 30's or 40's in social settings.
You walk in the room with your beard, pot gut, and an over-grown teenager skipping behind you. That's fine. But, you have no clue that your relationship is not on the same plane as most of the other people. As a result, the first thing the entire room notices about you is your aloofness, and how they are glad they are not like you.
When they learn of your extensive experience as a mariner, then things change. Everyone wants to hear your adventure stories. But, that doesn't mean they are jealous. Lol.
That's very interesting take on my life.
I can't say I agree with any of it, but it's interesting that that is how you see me. Too bad.
You imagine my wife is some bimbo, I guess. That's really too bad too, because you don't even know the girl, and she's a really terrific person. It will be your loss never to know her.
Personally, I know exactly what you mean. Like when a girl is absolutely gorgeous, how would a father refrain from never thinking about her? I'm sure it crosses a lot of fathers' minds, even if minimally. We are naturally attracted physically to the looks we desire and are socialized to deem as "hot". It's only abnormal if it gets to the point where it's all you ever think about as a father and it hinders the relationship or, at worst, you act on it. However, I think once you have acknowledged your daughter is stunning, I would imagine that you think about it less as time goes on.
Whether or not it's considered normal to feel this way, I don't know, but thoughts aren't always easy to control, and as long as you are conscientious about these thoughts and aren't letting them take over, it isn't as horrible as it seems. Some people hide a lot worse things than this, not only in thoughts, but actually letting themselves act on urges.
Think of it as, once you've had the thought, you can acknowledge it and accept it and move forward. Otherwise, saying is this normal, and hanging on it, only sucks you right back in over and over. Personally, again, I've thought about it. As well, I've thought about moms changing the diapers of and general caring of well-endowed men. Such as if a child had a larger than normal penis at a young age, how could the mom not think about it? Ultimately, we are wired, in spite of other forms of attraction, towards physical attraction. Big boobs are big boobs at any age. Big penises are big penises at any age. Maturity and self control is learning to be on top of these things and figuring out how to move past it.
Are you sure you aren't attracted to the fathers then? Our maybe have some underlying need to repair a relationship with a male figure in your life?
I think that at times I've fantasied regarding the father having sex with his dau...with me watching and wishing I was doing it. then the mom comes in and all hell brakes out...
all in simple fun. Actually I think it maybe a natural thing. Having a Hot dau. has to
be hell for a father...Great masturbation stuff.
A good looking woman's father is not one of the things I think about when I see a good looking woman.
Realize that this is not normal and is strange to think about.