Is it normal to want attention, even if it's bad attention?

I seem to like attention. This is usually evident when I'm in big groups. But I don't deny being alone and daydreaming about attracting attention. This could also be over stupid things that don't give off a good impression.

Like finding a big cardboard box in public, wearing it, and running until I fall and start rolling. It's funny in a way, but it's not who I want to be. When I do weird weird things that grab people's attention, I feel like at home. This is visible in my style of dressing up, my behavior, the way in which I talk and so on. Wanting attention sometimes even decides my hobbies.

The contradictory bit is that I HATE getting positive attention for tiny accomplishments here and there. Even though I would be more comfortable if I was the one talking about it. But really, attention over stupid things makes me happier for that moment.

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Comments ( 6 )
  • kikilizzo

    You sound like you need to work on your self respect and confidence.
    Maybe you even have BPD or something and cant handle feeling alone/people not paying attention to you.
    You should seek help because it isnt healthy to feel that way especially if you'll do anything for attention.

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    • Tommythecaty

      I think the op finding a big cardboard box and wearing it in public is a sign of too much confidence 🤣

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  • helldorado

    Everyone wants attention these days. Look at Tik Tok.

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    • SudoHalt

      When I see it, I hate it. When I do it and I see myself, I hate it. The trouble is that I'm usually not aware of what I do.

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  • Tinybird

    I mean that's why we have roast groups and such

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  • Wow3986

    No.

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