Is it normal to think that whenever someone looks at you they think negative?

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Is it normal that i think that whenever a person looks at me (wether he is a man , woman , a teen a child...etc ) i think that they think negative thoughts about me ? , examples are :
he /she might know some secret or an odd thing about me or he /she thinks i look ugly or fat , or they see my defos ..etc, i never think that he might find me cute or she finds my bag cute or i remind him /her of someone i know . or that i am attractive that is why they look at me...etc, you know positive thoughts .

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  • SacredScout
    8 years ago

    Just think: All of those persons admire me.

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  • those3simplewords
    8 years ago

    I have a mixture of both at different times...can be annoying actually

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    • those3simplewords
      8 years ago

      Thoughts that is

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  • imnotoverryan
    11 years ago

    Its just anxiety mixed with low self esteem. I think we think people think about us a million percent more than they actually do. Most just don't really care:)

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  • heavyscissors
    11 years ago

    I have a self-loathing problem and maybe lots of people do.

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  • gamergirl127
    11 years ago

    Same here i go to a store and see a cute guy look at me i automatticly think he hates me

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    11 years ago

    I suffer from this too.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    I'm having negative thoughts about you right now and i am not even looking at you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Why are you having negative thoughts about me and you aren't looking at me ?!

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      • Terence_the_viking
        11 years ago

        Sorry i'm not really but there you go.

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    No, and stop that!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I was bullied in junior and high school (never really got over that ) in college i didn't have good and real friends , and now i don't have ANY friends .
      Does this paranoia of thinking that whenever people look at you they think negatively about you have something to do with me being bullied and not having friends ?

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      • Shackleford96
        11 years ago

        It very well may have something to do with it. Would you like to talk about it?

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  • ifonlyuknew247
    10 years ago

    It's normal, but realize it's not healthy, and it's YOU and your own insecurities that are imposing these "thoughts", not anyone else.

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