Is it normal to talk to your abuser
So, this person I've been dating for a while is talking to someone that assaulted them a while back and did a bunch of other shitty stuff. She says it's strictly for educational reasons, but so many bad things have happened in the past and she's just giving him a second chance. I don't want to tell her who and who not to talk to, I've warned her that it might happen again, but I asked her to let me know if they become friends again because if they do I don't want to be associated with her anymore.
She sees me as controlling in this situation and how I feel about them talking, but I think it's justifiable that I don't want to be involved anymore if she's setting herself up to possibly be hurt again, because like I said the last time she gave him a second chance she did. But maybe I'm over reacting. Is it normal? Any advice?