Is it normal to not really have a preference?

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Is it normal to not really have a body preference when it comes to finding a girl attractive? I mean, as long as they're not extremely skinny or so overweight that they can't even move, I'm fine with almost any body... and I don't mean exclusively in a sexual way either. I'm a 20 y.o. male and have never really understood why people focus so much on how someone looks when it comes to relationships or sex... I'm attracted to body types ranging from slender figures all the way to being a little plumper or rounder figures. As long as they're not so slender/skinny that I'm afraid of breaking them like a twig just by being neat them, or if their extra weight keeps us from going out and going on dates with ease (I find dates where we can just walk about aimlessly and enjoy hanging out and spending time with each other enjoyable).

I see positives and negatives (for me anyways) to both sides of the body type spectrum. Slenderer figures are more likely to be able to go on those long walks and explore the town kind of dates, but they seem like they wouldn't be as comfortable to just lay down and cuddle/snuggle with and just enjoy being together. On the opposite side of the spectrum... I feel like the plumper figures would enjoy simply spending time cuddling/snuggling or cooking together or being idiots together or playing board games or other things like that, but they probably wouldn't want to walk all around town together and look at some of the little ma&pop shops.

I have already felt a little out of place because I'm more focused on companionship whereas most people seem to just want to get it on rather than build an actual relationship and possibly even get married. But... for those that actually read through all of this, thanks for taking the time to read it all. And for any comments on this, please don't make them hostile or volatile because that doesn't help anyone or really make it seem like you actually want your comment to matter. So... leave your thoughts/comments if you would like to, and thanks again for reading all of this (if you really did).

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  • snarkygirl
    8 years ago

    Its fine. Its good you can see beauty in different types and you will be less limited in partners.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Yup. I never understood why people are so obsessive about looks. I also hate how media in general promotes "super skinny" as beautiful when that just causes a lot of self esteem issues in young woman. A lot of woman can't fit into a size 0 dress or whatever the really small sizes are (I'm a guy and have no idea what the sizes and such are for women's clothing). Whenever my girlfriend says she wants to change something about how she looks, I always ask her for whom she wants to change those things about. If she says she wants to change them for herself, then she has my support, but I also tell her that I'm perfectly fine with how she looks in case if she really wants to change herself so that she thinks she's more attractive to me, when in reality I already find her very attractive. Only things I don't really want her doing is getting plastic surgery or things like that... I just want her to be natural... that's all I really ask for when it comes to how women look...

      Side note: I do approve of plastic surgery or implants or whatever if it's to recover something lost or to fix something like a birth defect (i.e. facial reconstruction/plastic surgery because they were in an accident or something that caused them to lose their looks or having or their cheek is sunken in since birth or something along those lines, or if they had breast cancer and fought it off but lost their breasts in the process... I'd be fine with them getting breast implants if they wanted them because I know that can be hard on women). If they do get implants, I'd hope they would get something that looks natural to their figure (i.e. not getting DDD or H's when they're short and slender, if they're short and slender... I think flat-C's are natural looking... If they were naturally bigger than that before they lost them, then I'd be fine with them returning to their old size)... I know I'm a little picky when it comes to whether or not something looks natural... it's just that so many people hate how they look and will sometimes go through ridiculous things to achieve what they think is beautiful... and they end up not looking even remotely similar to how they originally looked. I'm also perfectly fine with breast reduction surgery.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    8 years ago

    Normal. I don't really have a preference when it comes to a guy's body type.

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  • nopem8
    8 years ago

    Anorexia is bad, but so is being a fat shite.

    Anywhere between is okay.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Normal, but nowhere near common enough.

    By the way, why do you assume "plumper" women can't walk around the shops with you? I'm fat and I walk nearly every day with my dog for up to an hour at a time.

    I reckon it's quite possible a lot of thin women are to weak to walk far, but I don't assume anything about all of them

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      When I walk around, I'm usually walking around for 4+ hours and going all over towns. I know that even some people that are slender have a hard time walking 4+ hours when trying to keep up with me. I do slow down a bit for people who are a do struggle to keep up.

      Also, I never said that they can't walk around town with me. I said that "they probably wouldn't want to walk all around town together."

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  • Poes
    8 years ago

    You Sir just bored the shit right out of my day! congratulations...

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