Is it normal to not give a fuck?

i simply dont care about how fat i am, how clean i am , what do i wear , what do people think about me....

i wasnt always like this but since i started bein depressed i simply stopped giving a fuck about what society says about me, i mean why should i care? i have no friend,no girls and no matter how much i try my face will always be ugly so why not everything else in me? maybe one day when i find happiness ill start giving a fuck again, is this normal?

yes its ok to be like this sometimes 14
no you must care what you look like 2
no you must care about your health and hygien 11
no you nasty cow get your sh*t together 8
maybe its ok for a short perioud of time only 8
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Comments ( 21 )
  • llamalover

    let's not give a fuck together. Or not, I don't really give a fuck.

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    • anormalperson

      sure why not, its not like i give a fuck or something

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  • ANSWERMEPLS

    Please, you being depressed is a whole other story , you need to cheer up , be happy , open your eyes wide and look around you (i know youll only see shit but whatever ignore it)

    i get depressed sometimes too but u have to be happy but you can try having friends or being closer to your relatives , like don't block yourself from the world.

    about your appearance .. DO YOU WANT TO DIE>>!>!>!>!!>! HYGIENE IS IMPORTANT you have to take care of that at least , not giving a shit to how you like is ok but hygiene is very important sir!

    its not like im the cleanest or happiest person in the world , but im just giving advice

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  • Have you considered seeing a counselor to talk about these problems?

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    • anormalperson

      no

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      • I would recommend doing that. It could help!

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      • The_Great_Flatuloso

        Not giving a fuck is a right you have to feel like. Nobody will care about it though.

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  • Aries

    if you gave a fuck you might eat better and work out and look better , fit better in better looking clothing . You might have a more positive attitude which would attract friends and women . If you gave a fuck , others might start giving a fuck about you . Until then , no one gives a fuck about you and probably just thinks your a self loathing sack of shit . Sorry to be brutally honest .

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  • If you don't love yourself, no one will. Snap out of it, please.

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  • EchoMaster

    I'm not sure if I give a fuck. But cheer up. Most people are ugly and they don't even know it.

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  • nikkiclaire

    Well, when you wind up stuck in your bedroom because you are too fat to fit through the door maybe you will give a fuck.

    Due to my job I know people this happened too and its not pretty. Some actually became part of their bed, literally their skin grew around their sheets etc.

    Good luck.

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    • anormalperson

      eyyy im not that fat

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  • bubsy

    Body image is a part of self esteem for everyone and especially for women. You have to "give a fuck" before you "find happiness". Not the other way around.

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    • The_Loitering_Creep

      Yes, and even then you may find only limited happiness. For example, I have facial scars that make women sick. I will never get laid, but I have limited happiness being a well groomed and gentlemanly creep.

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      • bubsy

        Women value looks less but have higher standards for men's looks.
        Men value looks more but have lower standards for women's looks.

        It's a subtle difference but it's also one of the reasons you see granddads with hot young girlfriends far more often than the other way around. Wealth, power and wit all tie into confidence, and masculinity doesn't rely on physical beauty.

        Unless you are significantly disfigured, it's hard to believe there isn't a version of you that can't get laid. What if you weren't just well groomed, but at 10% bodyfat, ripped and tanned?

        What if you were rich, and had a mindset of not giving a fuck? What if you weren't so pathetic that you label yourself as a 'creep'? What if you stopped being a gentleman and started being an actual man?

        You are nowhere close to your potential.

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        • The_Loitering_Creep

          I am all those things and am at my potential. I have no trouble making friends with women who immediately friend zone me. You nailed it. Women value looks less but have higher standards for men's looks.

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          • bubsy

            How much do you make?

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            • The_Loitering_Creep

              There is a 90% chance my liquid assets will last until I am 90 years old. I have no plans to waste money on women. Women do have plans to waste my money on themselves. It is easiest to not talk about money.

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