Is it normal to message a random girl on instagram?

There’s this girl I saw on Tinder. I looked her up on Instagram and her profile was private but she let me follow her despite having no idea who I am. Obviously she lives in my area, would it be creepy to message her with something like “Hey, i don’t normally do this but I think you’re really cute. Do you have a boyfriend?”

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  • Ummitsstillme

    Just swipe right on tinder and see if she matches then hit her up. If not I'd leave it alone

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    • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

      I Disagree

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  • SKDM007

    its okay to message someone but its what you say that really determines it, asking straight up do you have a boyfriend is a little intrusive and youll prob get blocked

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

    Yes, message every single girl you see. Getting laid is like fishing. You throw your hooks everywhere. I fish will bite eventually.

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    • Ummitsstillme

      Sure he can slide in her dm's and the worst that could happen is he gets ignored or blocked. Most women just collect followers on the gram and aren't going to hook up with any guy there unless they're high status.

      You catch much more fish casting your line where you know they are biting than wasting your time dropping hooks everywhere.

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      • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

        Yeah but if you see a fish and dont throw the hook you might miss out on catching one

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  • Golias

    If you saw her on Tinder doesn't it mean she's looking for a date..?

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    • I mean, she doesn't KNOW I found her on Tinder...Just didn't want to say "Hey, I saw your profile on Tinder and looked you up"

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      • Golias

        I'd go ahead and simply message her. Whether she thinks it's creepy it's up to her, just respect her opinion.

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