Is it normal to like your scars
I cut my self frequently, and I really like when the cut heals and i can see the scars
Is it normal?
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As inappropriate as it may be, That is what I never got about self harm cutting - it's got to be a cry for attention (although they usually claim it isn't), or possibly a fetish. Or they just don't give a crap. I too have felt the urge to harm myself, but keep it internal - using loads of alcohol of course, like a normal weirdo!
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I did self harm in high school, never to a terribly concerning degree however. And most kinky fuckers into s and m type shit do have more extreme desires like cutting choking ect but a smart one will keep the things they practice safe sane and consesual. I definitely have some things that I sexually want to do, but have consistently affirmed to myself I will never touch in real life.
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I love my stretch mark scars because my baby have me them. I like the scar I have from an operation because it acts as a reminder of who I am and what I've been through. If you mean self harm scars, I do t think you should like them because they come from a dark place, but there is nothing wrong with learning to accept them and have them act as a reminder that you got through a dark place and you're strong.
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I don't know about self harm scars, but please try not to hurt yourself.
However, I have accepted and learned to like some of my imperfections. I walk with a slight limp and although people act as if it's a taboo subject to bring up and like they expect me to be ashamed of it, it's been how I am my entire life and it doesn't bother me at all. I've rarely felt self conscious about it.
I have a few others too that are just a part of what makes me who I am and either don't bother me or that I kind of like. I don't really have any scars at the moment besides some stretch marks from major growth spurts as an adolescent. I don't really love or hate those, and they're not very noticeable.
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The question is, why do you cut yourself.
How often, how deep?
If its scratches.
Thats no different then a tattoo.
I guess Im saying what is your motivation?
1 scratches to leave a mark.
2 cuts, hoping someone will notice and think your suicidal and pay attention to you.
3 you like to transfer the mental pain into a physical pain, then like the scar, because as it heals you are past the mental B.S.
Whats your motivation?
I dont judge you for scarring.
As long as your reasoning is sound.Comment Hidden ( show )