Is it normal to have family that doesn’t care?

These are only some things but in a nutshell these are what they do to me.
- they say the demon is persuading me to talk back to them whenever i try to speak my point of view
- i cant call or go out with any of my friends
- having guy friends is unacceptable especially if you’re alone with them
- they sleep in your room because they dont trust you sleeping alone
- they dont believe im doing my homework and therefore give me more chores to do at home
- they wont let me outside on my own unless they are with me
- i have to give updates to where i am at all the time
- as a child they never actually tried to bond with me and only gave me stuff
- we never went out to family gatherings so im not even comfortable with my own family
- they dont know what i want or who i want to be
- they forced me to take vocal and piano classes when i was younger. i cried about it because it isnt what i wanted and the teachers would yell at me for not fulfilling their expectations. its not only 3 months later that they pulled me out of it..

i dont know what i did to make them do this to me but i only realized their behaviour now. i feel so trapped, angry, and sad. im female. i have trust issues and i dont know who i could talk to about this. im maintaining my 90+ average in school rn but i have 3 late assignments now because my parents give me so many things to do/force me to go on vacation with them that i dont have time to finish them. i want to move out but i cant. school was my only escape from home but now with the pandemic im with them forever. i cant handle this anymore.

im not a parent so i wouldn’t understand any of their actions but please someone tell me if this is normal or not. i feel like im drowning here.