Is it normal to get so easily bored when dating someone?

I always feel like initially when I start dating (first couple of dates) I get excited and then afterwards start to get really bored with the person, like it's almost a chore to go and have to see them. I've dated some pretty attractive women too who have a lot of the same interests as me, but I always manage to find something or couple of things that I don't like and harp on them. I want to shake it off and just be into them but I have so much difficulty in maintaining interest, what could this be?

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  • LoveDenise

    It's normal.

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  • lordofopinions

    You just haven't met that one woman who has staying power. When you meet her you will know.

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  • Mehereok1

    It's fairly normal. I've done the same. New things are always exciting, and it's difficult to keep that level of excitement going. I met a hot, slender, fit, absolutely beautiful (and normally out of my league) woman at a sports bar one night. She had it all. The looks, smart, very long nails (my personal thing..fetish), just amazing.

    Left with her, had sex, and started casually dating her. Was great, then went from damn I can't wait to see her to..Shit, I better text her hi and offer to go somewhere tonight. Once the thrill is gone, we kind of check out.

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  • Zeikfried

    I'd say it's pretty normal. It's highly personal tho. You just like to obsess over the small things that make you two incompatible and convince yourself that she's not that great, that she's just mediocre and stuff. It's just your brain or personality fucking with you. First dates are rather awkward, and they make you even wonder if it is worth the trouble at all. However, there is are certainly "special" people who will make you melt. I'm saying this because guys tend to want relationships with good-looking women even if they don't have that passion that drives a relationship, or just because you have "matching" interests. You might fall for someone who's completely different than you and you will know because it will make you feel funny inside whenever they talk to you and stuff.

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  • Don't take this the wrong way but you could be a bit of a fuckboy without meaning to be

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  • RoseIsabella

    It's better to lose interest than to settle, and waste the other person's time.

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