Is it normal to feel like there's no right choice in this situation?
My father recently had multiple strokes. He's now let unable to communicate or swallow. My family & I are left with the decision of hospice care and keeping him comfortable but with no food or liquids and let nature take it's course, or have a feeding tube inserted thus prolonging his suffering in this condition. Basically turning him into a poop factory for no better way to explain it. I know he'd prefer the first choice but at the same time I feel guilty because whatever is left of my dad is still struggling to survive. I really wouldn't wish this choice I anyone.
I feel guilty no matter which I choose. Would you feel the same way?