Is it normal to consider dumping my gf for these reasons
I’m a dude in his early 30’s and my GF is 3 years younger than myself. We have been together for 8 months at this point and we were dating for half a year prior to making it official.
I have my life sorted out and I’m more or less ready to settle down. I own an apartment, a car and I have a stable income. I have gotten into my stride so to say.
My girlfriend who is in her late 20’s is currently about to complete her Master’s degree (which for the record is something that I completed 8 years ago). Don’t get me wrong, I see this as very positive, but I’ll explain the issue more in detail in a moment.
The problem that I have sensed is that she is used to getting spoon fed and she has absolutely no interest in being a grownup. She has absolutely no interest to apply for any jobs after she graduates, neither does she have any interest to take on the normal responsibilities that any other adult has.
She is from a very rich family, but I really don’t care about her legacy or money. I just seek someone who is ready to take responsibilities no matter what their social economical status is.
Last, but not least. I have been having problems with her seeing other men while I am at work. I often see selfies on social media of her and random guys that she meet in clubs and social gatherings.
I have spoken to her about it and I would like to believe her that these guys are only friends. I have however dug up flirtatious text messages between her and the guys she meet (such as hearts being sent back and fourth).
I feel that I am done here and I am preparing to break the news to her. I would however greatly appreciate a sanity check for my reasoning beforehand though, which is why I am consulting you, my friends.
Is it normal to not accept these conditions? What would you had done?