Is it normal to..be upset with where a family member picked for dinner?
I have a family member graduating college next week. We're all going, and, like with everyone who graduates, go to dinner wherever the grad wants. In this case, however, the choice was not only notably expensive, but, mostly seafood, which I'm ok with but one other family member is highly allergic to, and another avoids it. Given that all of us are paying for everything, not the new grad for a thing, is it normal for me to be a little miffed or pissed at this?
Further, we know the family member will likely invite someone from their Greek frat/sorority, so..We'll be on the hook for that as well. Most of this family member's life, when we're honest and being frank, we've all said..Spoiled, and doesn't know the value of a dollar. And trust me, this person doesn't.
Problem, too, is..This person is very selfish and doesn't care; Is on a "life" and what it's all about kick. Which we all know is total crap and mainly avoidance of adulthood.
Do I have cause to be ticked about the dinner place? Should they have taken some consideration to other people?