Is it normal to be turned on my gay sex but identify as straight?

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I am straight, I have only girlfriends, I love having sex with them, I love them. I want to get married. I find myself turned on by sex with men (rather than gay sex.) No kissing, but topping or being bottom is a huge turn on to me. If I'm fantasizing, I'll cum and as soon as this happens, the feeling disappears. I feel almost ashamed of it. I believe in the difference between love making and sex and know that sex can be a physical release, but I find meeting up with guys found online is reckless and dangerous.
Does anyone else have any thoughts on this? I am not asking whether I'm straight or not, just whether this crossing over is something someone has experience in.

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  • peterrabbyt3
    7 years ago

    Men suck cocks better than women and you will find this out. You are likely a good cocksucker too.

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  • ChelseaGonzales
    7 years ago

    This is called being bi-curious. This means you want to experiment with the opposite sex to see what they have to offer. Maybe a man gives a better blow job then a female and these are things you are probably wondering.

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  • Cut'n'cute
    7 years ago

    I have exactly the same fantasy! No kissing and not just any man, tall, clean and easy going but how I'd love to be seduced by another guy.. to give myself over totally to the right guy, let him use me (gently) as he wants is my main masturbation fantasy, i cum so much thinking about it. I doubt it'll ever happen but i think about it all the time, weird or what for a married straight !

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  • Q&A27
    7 years ago

    Glad I have seen this because I am the same and confused by this I do not fancy men but cocks I get turned on by I could never kiss a man but would suck a cock I think I have a girlfriend and the thought of us both sucking one together I really like is that normal?

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  • randypete
    7 years ago

    guys suck cocks better

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  • rltg4711
    7 years ago

    Don't put tags on yourself, like lots of others tend to do, when refering to certain activities. You are still the same person within, if you have a straight relationship and a male to male relationship. If you indeed have a longing thought of being with another man, then go ahead and experience the wonder of it. You are only ashamed because you are obviously alone, when you masterbate. Were you with another man, the ending, when both of you finally cum, will feel so much more satisfying and enjoyable.
    It is such a wonderful feeling, sucking another mans cock, getting him all hot and hard and then having his throbbing cock slide into you. Truly delightful.

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  • clevertrevor1
    7 years ago

    You will never know until you try it, I know, I have and I certainly liked it. I am by no means Gay, but I am not offended by Gay people and actually enjoy their company.

    Guys give the best head by the way and sucking dick is a very erotic experience, especially when it spurts in your mouth!

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    • peterrabbyt3
      7 years ago

      I wish we could suck each other off Trev...

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      • jimmythecunt
        7 years ago

        It is a great pity that there is a ocean between us because I too would love to suck your dick until your nutsack is dry!

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  • bfus
    7 years ago

    It's true. The one time a guy gave me head was better than all of the times I got head from girls.

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