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I'm a 40+ male. I've had my share of heterosexual adventures. Nothing crazy, but fun. On occasion, I get curious about, what if I met a (hetero)guy who's just as curious as I am. No relationship – just experimenting. I'm not gay(attracted to guys)...just curious about new simulations. IIN?
Curiosity is normal, and even experimentation - and does not indicate that you are homosexual, pansexual, or anything but curious.
People are not a small sexual point on the chart of human sexuality. They range over an area (and not as a uniform circle or any other uniform shape).
After you find where you fit best, then you can see where it fits on the chart and describe yourself - and being some form of "bi" is somewhat common.
About 9 years ago I spent about 6 months of my life seriously learning about and researching human sexuality (my marriage depended on understanding things I never even knew existed - and once both me and my wife understood things we didn't know about prior to our marriage - we were able to resolve things and move forward). I have spent massive hours for months reading about it.
I think my understanding of it is likely better than yours. I am not trying to change any real definitions. Sex researchers and psychologist all say essentially what I have said above.
Have you noticed that the people least informed about the science of human sexuality are also the quickest to police absolutist definitions of gay, straight, and bisexual?
OMG you put a stick in a hole dont make this hard... on seconded thought DO
Not really gay. But you have to fine the right person that fits the balance of non threatening, not actually gay, open and honest with themselves, and not insecure.
I've had 2 guys in my life that fit this, and it was refreshing to be able to talk about stuff in next level, and experiment and play around each other.
Its not like it's a one time thing. Relationship over years, where you learn sensibilities of your friend. Comments over time where you can tell they aren't homophobic, or insecure. Then when you are in perfect situation, you can take that next comment or question, where it's not threatening. From comparing/describing eaches dick, to actually having fun jerking off in crazy fun places.
Get some 8 inches up your ass already and tell us if you still want to experiment. It's normal to be curious. We were not asked to determine your sexuality, that's why I'm not stating you might be bi-curious or gay.
I'm with CK on this one, does it actually have to be a hetero guy?
What difference would it make if the guy was bi or gay?
Hmmm, it's starting to appear these posts about guys wanting to have sexual relations with another man, then claiming they aren't gay are troll posts.
If not, stop claiming you're hetero because you are not.