Is it normal to act like this guy?

23% Normal
9 Comments

Ugh I really need some insight. Basically I want to understand his head.
So I was 13 and he was 26, I had a lot of problems back then, crazy (psychosis, bipolar, anxiety blah blah), stupid, and I felt weird cuz I was a vergin (friends lied). So anyhow I started hanging out with this guy because he was so nice I didn't feel uncomfortable. Holding my hand, calling me cute blah blah. We did do a little bit together, but recently I found out he drugged me :/ at least once idk.
I looked up to him a bit. He seemed successful (I thought I would never be successful) but he confused the hell out of me. He kept asking things like "why do you do this?", "why do you like me? " I always smiled and said "cause your nice", and he was the nicest person I knew, now I realize he's an asshole.
The last time we talked, I told him I wanted to die (and I really did) he said "too much drama, bye" I cant even describe how shitty I felt. Looking back on it, it was right before he moved to new York. He gave me a call and said he was in town (I just got out of group homes) he kept pushing me to hang out, but I knew better. Said I was going to hang out, stopped answering my phone. Maybe that made him mad?
Also when I'd walk behind him; he would look back every few seconds and ask "why do you stare at the walls and get this weird look on your face? ", I do that, but it drove him crazy.
Anyhow Id just like some insight, and don't worry about my feelings or whatever, just tell me how it is idc

Voting Results
23% Normal
Based on 26 votes (6 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 9 )
  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    I'm a little confused with your style of writing. Anyway, the main thing is that he sexual abused you. He's a child molester. He probably doesn't want anything to do with you now, now that you're an adult. Report him. Go to the police or CPS and report him.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    2
    2
  • dasugaknows
    9 years ago

    I'm not sure how much time has passed, but maybe you could still press charges against him. Any 26 year old who sleeps with a 13 year old is a child molester. If you or someone else does not report him, he will continue to do this to other children. You think you were the only 13 year old he did this to? Most likely not.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • Parky_Parker
    9 years ago

    Any 26 year-old who drugs a person and/or does sexual things with a 13 year-old is a huge piece of shit.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    He's fucking disgusting. That is all

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • palepunk
    9 years ago

    You're a kid and he's a pedophile. Stay away from him.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    Please explain the staring at walls thing.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • missy911
    9 years ago

    If I was in your circumstance and wanted to make positive choices in my life; I would permanently put distance between myself and this guy. He violated your physical, emotional & psychological boundaries in the worst way. It sounds like he still wants to.

    He has nothing to offer you in the way of a brighter & happier life but misery & unhappiness. Life is not fair and some of us have a tougher go than others. He will without fail set your personal demons against you.

    Since you have been in a group home, you have probably had counseling. You should find out from a counselor if you can still file a police report. This guy seriously broke the law. The police should at the least know of his behavior.

    I hope you find the validation you are needing.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • NeuroNeptunian
    9 years ago

    This guy is a fucking pedophile. Considering the age difference and the fact that you were barely a teenager, you had no free agency. This guy took advantage of you and committed statutory rape. No, it is not normal nor should it be.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • davesumba
    9 years ago

    A guy being nice to a girl so she'll sleep with him? Kicking her to the curb once he realizes she is crazy and not worth it?
    This is unheard of!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0