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If your in a faithful committed relationship, is it on to accept females Facebook requests? Furthermore is it ok to chat with them, if it isn't sexual in nature?
Been there, on the opposite end, and it causes problems. Was dating a woman who, while very damn beautiful, also rarely slept and was on FB pretty much all night, chatting, mostly if not entirely, with guys. I'd check her page in the morning and see she added 10, 15 people, usually all guys, since I went to bed.
She always had some excuse, their just friends, or I went to school with so and so's brother, etc..And often accused me of being insecure, which I was not.
One weekend, we were supposed to go out, but, as she does have health problems, didn't. I then see on her page she had a "dinner date" planned, along with responses like "Finally say yes to...?", meaning, private convos went on that weren't posted. I called her on it, she knew I had her, and she kept saying "It was one stupid dinner date, at his house".. Last part. At his house.
If that wasn't bad enough, anytime I added any female, usually business-related, I heard it from her like crazy. Who's Madison? What about Alexandra? Told her look them up, and see they're either married, in relationship, and likely in businesses related to mine. I wasn't having dinner dates at their houses.
FB can be a relationship killer. Don't accept the opposite sex if you don't know them and your sig. other doesn't know about it.
Are you hiding it from your girlfriend? No.
Is your girlfriend comfortable with it? If yes, then go for it. If no, then no it isn't.
Personally I can completely understand if she doesn't want you to, and you should simply just not do it.
On this occasion, I agree with Mr Potato: since you're in a committed relationship, it all depends on what your girlfriend thinks about this. If you try to do it on the down-low just to avoid a conversation with her about it, you can be damn sure she'll find out sooner or later, and then it will be reasonable for her to wonder why you were being secretive.
I'm sorry, but everyone is saying it depends if your girlfriend is okay with it but in my opinion if your partner is not okay with you TALKING to people that is a problem