Is it normal this girl won't fuck off?
I'm going to sound like a dick here, I accept that.
I was at a bar a while ago and this girl singled me out. She would try sitting next to me, talking to me, constantly stared at me, and so on. It's not something completely uncommon to happen to me so I was friendly with her, chit-chatted, and so on.
Went to an after-party and she was there too. She wouldn't stop trying to be around me, asked me to dance despite me telling her I don't dance and her continiously trying to get me to dance (not accepting no).
Fast forward, she has gotten in contact with my mother. From my mother she got my Facebook profile. I get messaged. Usual chit-chat stuff. She keeps on messaging me. A few days later she continues to message me and just randomly asks me if we can be boyfriend and girlfriend. I'm not ready for a relationship so I declined. She asked if we could be friends. I went away for five minutes to get some food and came back to about ten messages of "Hello? Can we be friends?", "You there? Can we be friends?", "We can be friends, right?"...And I responded with "yeah".
A day later she's asking me if I want to go to a bar with her, she'd pay for the drinks and so on so we can get drunk. I get an iffy feeling that she's intending to get me drunk to dull my senses for reasons I am sure you can assume, so I decline. She keeps on asking, I keep on declining.
Now all of a sudden she claims she claims she may have skin cancer and that she can't tell anybody about it and that she's going to the doctors. I picked up straight away that she's trying to get me to go with her. She started it off by telling me if I can keep a secret, which I said yes (I should of said no) and then she told me. She told me she couldn't tell anybody else and she can't tell her parents because they wouldn't be able to handle it and that her friend said they couldn't go with her to the appointment. Did you catch that? Apparently she couldn't tell anybody about this but she says her friends said they couldn't go. How obvious can you be?
I'm starting to question if her skin cancer thing is even true or if it's just a way to try get me to be around her. I've only actually been around her for about three to four hours and she's like this.
Is this type of behavior normal?