Is it normal this girl won't fuck off?

I'm going to sound like a dick here, I accept that.

I was at a bar a while ago and this girl singled me out. She would try sitting next to me, talking to me, constantly stared at me, and so on. It's not something completely uncommon to happen to me so I was friendly with her, chit-chatted, and so on.

Went to an after-party and she was there too. She wouldn't stop trying to be around me, asked me to dance despite me telling her I don't dance and her continiously trying to get me to dance (not accepting no).

Fast forward, she has gotten in contact with my mother. From my mother she got my Facebook profile. I get messaged. Usual chit-chat stuff. She keeps on messaging me. A few days later she continues to message me and just randomly asks me if we can be boyfriend and girlfriend. I'm not ready for a relationship so I declined. She asked if we could be friends. I went away for five minutes to get some food and came back to about ten messages of "Hello? Can we be friends?", "You there? Can we be friends?", "We can be friends, right?"...And I responded with "yeah".

A day later she's asking me if I want to go to a bar with her, she'd pay for the drinks and so on so we can get drunk. I get an iffy feeling that she's intending to get me drunk to dull my senses for reasons I am sure you can assume, so I decline. She keeps on asking, I keep on declining.

Now all of a sudden she claims she claims she may have skin cancer and that she can't tell anybody about it and that she's going to the doctors. I picked up straight away that she's trying to get me to go with her. She started it off by telling me if I can keep a secret, which I said yes (I should of said no) and then she told me. She told me she couldn't tell anybody else and she can't tell her parents because they wouldn't be able to handle it and that her friend said they couldn't go with her to the appointment. Did you catch that? Apparently she couldn't tell anybody about this but she says her friends said they couldn't go. How obvious can you be?
I'm starting to question if her skin cancer thing is even true or if it's just a way to try get me to be around her. I've only actually been around her for about three to four hours and she's like this.

Is this type of behavior normal?

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7% Normal
Based on 58 votes (4 yes)
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Comments ( 27 )
  • Pyroki

    She sounds like a stalker. Ditch her or expect to find yourself tied up in her basement with your mouth gagged surrounded by sex toys sometime in the near future.

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    • Riddler

      This right here. People like that dont know how to take the hint or sometimes even the straight answer.

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  • dynamohumm

    No No you are NOT a dick at all.

    She on the other hand sounds mentally unstable and definitely a stalker.

    Be afraid............very afraid and if she persists you might have to call professional help for her (eg cops or doctor).

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  • RoseIsabella

    Tell her you're really busy whenever she contacts you. Don't return her phone calls and text messages etcetera. Tell her you met a really stunning girl that you're digging on and if she asks for details tell her you don't kiss and tell. Don't say yes to any favors or requests she makes of you. If you're not comfortable saying no yet then tell her you'll get back to her, and then don't get back to her creepy, stalky ass.

    Maybe there are some privacy settings you can implement on your Facebook. You can un-friend and block her on social media. Don't be afraid to tell your mom what a creep she is. You can also call your cell phone carrier and block her.

    If you're feeling up to it you can even tell her you're not interested, and would like her to leave you alone.

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  • say you're gay now

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  • green_boogers

    At this point, the vote is 8 to 1 that she is a stalker. You are in deep trouble dude. Stalking is about control. Better search the Internet for stalker advice.

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  • theseeker

    She sounds crazy. You're gonna have to be upfront with her eventually. If worse comes to worse maybe you could look into a restraining order? Whatever you do be wary. I wouldn't tell her she's crazy though. Who knows what the hell she will do!?

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    What the fuck XD she sounds mentally ill.

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    • Halp me. :'(

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  • chained_rage

    She sounds like a keeper

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    • RoseIsabella

      Don't you mean a creeper?

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  • Cicero20

    I agree, definitely not a dick. This is an unsafe situation and one you must get out of as soon as you possibly can. I think you need to be blunt with her (and by blunt, I do not mean cruel); I think she may be someone who struggles with reading signals and is also, most likely, desperately lonely. That being said, your own safety is paramount. Just because you are male (I presume) and she is female does not negate the danger of this situation.

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  • immortalchild15

    You're not a dick. you need protection. i recommend asking asking her why she texts you politely. If she takes it the wrong and goes crazy you need to call someone. call the cops or your parents for help. she sounds insane!

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  • JD777

    Dude, RUN! This chick has issues. Before you "dump" her, tell your Mom, and any mutual friends you may have with this chick, what's going on. That way, if she tries to go to them and trash talk you, they'll have the straight story.

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  • Anonymous200

    Tell her that you don't want to be around her, now. I used to be one of those clingy girls, and let me tell you, it will hurt a lot less for both of you if you do it now rather than later when she's gotten even more invested in you.
    Don't tell her to fuck off in those exact words, but do tell her politely that you don't want to be friends, and especially not together romantically.
    Trust me on this. You sound like a nice guy, but I think that you have to be assertive.
    If she continues to stalk you, call the police and have them handle it. You have the right to pick who you can be around, you know.

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  • dickwashington

    do you want to be friends with her? if not why not just break contact and/or tell her to fuck off?

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  • dirtybirdy

    You poor thing :( She's bonkers. Run. Run far away. I will assist with my millions of minions if necessary. Tell her that the flock is on its way if she doesn't back off. If she has to ask what the flock is, laugh heartily as you turn your back and casually stroll away, then flash me the signal. We will be waiting..

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  • kelili

    I'm really sad for this girl. She needs attention or she is feeling really lonely and she's desperate for some care.

    You should tell her that you understand that she needs someone but you aren't the right guy for this and then block all contact. She'll survive, but it's really sad for someone to be like that. Really sad.

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  • eastbeast

    Get her back to your place, get her naked, kneel on her chest pinning her arms down with your knees then spaff all over her face and in her hair then kick her out.

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  • penisprisoner

    she obviously wants your dick shes williing to pay for stuff take advantage of the situation spend alll her money and fuck her until she can't walk then never speak to her again

    bet you can get her to do some weird stuff like give you a rim job or something sick like that

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  • clevertrevor1

    She is a "Cling-on", they are a very dangerous species indeed as they are not from planet earth! Be very careful as she intends to abduct you and do sexual experiments on you for her own pleasure!

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  • rayb12

    Does her butt look good?

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  • insanebotv21

    Obsessive, controlling, AND conning. She's definitely a bad one. And not in any of the good ways.

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  • funlovingbitch

    Sounds like a bit of s control freak

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  • Koda

    There was this girl that was in air cadets with my friend, and she was obsessed with having a threesome with my friend and his brother! She just wouldn't stop going on about how hot she thought they were, she talked about this to everyone. It was scary. The scariest part was that before she met my friend apparently she was completely normal.

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  • icameinsidemyself

    I wouldnt worry until she starts making suicide threats or she kills one of your pets and leaves it in your mailbox or something.

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  • Dazed_dreamer

    STALKER!

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