Is it normal the doctors let my baby die.
(Sorry kinda graphic)
Iwent in with contractions at 20 weeks. The nurse spent 30 minutes testin urine and asking me dumb unnecessary questions.
"Do you have transportation, Do you live alone?" I was in pain that was growing consistently. I told her ihad a history of fast labors and that i had just felt movement before the contractions started.
She scoffed, chuckled and disappeared for another 30 minutes.
Finally a different nurse recommended a pelvic exam. But when she did it, it caused a massive contraction that wouldnt subside.
While waiting for a doctor to show up and break my water, they told me they couldnt save her because she was too young. After delivery, they just measured her, wrapped her up, and told me her heart would eventually stop.
They all just left her to die..
They told me she measured 22 weeks.
My brother in law insists that they were wrong for abandoning my baby becuz he'd had a cousin born at the same age who survived and was now a grown man.
I personally dont know what to think. They literally did nothing but check her heart every 10 minutes to see if it had stopped.
Part of me felt like more could have been done..
Is This Normal?