Is it normal that my boyfriend expects a blow job when his penis smells?

So, I have a new boyfriend. My last boyfriend was circumcized, and his penis never smelled at all. Like it was just another piece of skin, so blow jobs weren't a big deal. They were easy and shit because he didn't smell like anything down there and he was also not a nag about it either. If I said no, he let it drop. It was pretty simple, but my new boyfriend is uncircumcized, and his penis smells like, really bad. If he takes it out of his pants, it almost makes me gag from a few feet away. I'm not exactly going to tell him this, but it does. Anyway, when I first started dating him, I told him I didn't want to go down on him, because hello, it stinks to high heavens, and I don't know how he can't smell that shit, and he used to try to put it in my mouth even AFTER I SAID NO, and now all he does is whine and nag and bitch that I don't give head. Is this normal behavior for a guy? cause he is actually pretty decent and stuff, except for the fact that he was a virgin so the sex is still kind of painful and what not, but regardless, if I have told him to clean his junk why the hell is he still bitching, it's not like he wants to go suck something that smells that gross, and he ain't going down on me (I don't like it very much so) So there is no reason for him to bitch like a 3 year old. Anyway... advice? Is this really normal?

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  • RubyCane

    Introduce him either to the bathroom or to the door... CLEAN and simple! ;)

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  • lc1988

    Ew. Reading this kinda made me gag. My boyfriend is uncircumcised as well but it never smells unless he just got back from the gym or something. He always washes it with soap and water before we have sex though...and he does expect some mouth time every time lol. Since your bf was a virgin, maybe he's not familiar with certain hygiene practices and you really need to enlighten him. He's probably not washing it well in the shower either. Probably not the most easy going conversation you'll have but he really needs to pull back the skin and wash everything! If he doesn't listen, dump him.

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  • why is he your boyfriend?

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    • AngAnders112

      EXACTLY!!

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  • LiemSawyer

    1. No. A guy's penis really shouldn't smell. He my have an infection from poor hygiene down there.

    2. Dump him. Any guy that tries to shove it down your throat after you've said no is a piece of shit, and whining about it to try and coerce you is abusive.

    Seems dangerous. I wouldn't put it past him to try to assault you if he's doing this. No decent guy will act like that.

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  • Chronic2001

    He shouldn't smell, end of story ... I'm really afraid of being smelly so I usually wash my foreskin each time before I'm having sex ... Just common sense. But! I'm really curious about what you said about being a virgin and that sex hurts? Why is it like that? Is it that he doesn't have the correct technique? If you could please elaborate I would truly appreciate it. Thanks!

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  • Avant-Garde

    Not being circumcised can cause a smell. The skin has to pulled back and washed throughly. Either he isn't doing this or he has some form of infection. What a whiny bitch that he can't seem to take no for a answer. Perhaps, he's in denial about the smell? Either way, you need to give him a wake up call! If he can't properly take care of his manhood then he should get circumcised.

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  • UnrecognizableMan

    Just hold your nose. That's what I do...

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  • Legion

    that guy sounds like a real asshole

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  • wigsplitz

    Um, that's gross. 2 things come to mind. Does he have some kind of infection that might be causing the extra bad smell? I'd be concerned about that! And, you could make him wear a condom, that might make it bearable. But yeah, that's gross. I'd have left him the first time I got a whiff of that shit, to be perfectly honest.

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