Is it normal that im 14 and my mom won't let me stay home

It's clear your mother has no trust in you.

As a mum and a daughter I feel for you,as a daughter I found everything my mum did irritating, I just wanted to grow up and be treated like I was grown up and she never got that.but then I grew up! And became a mother and soon realised that my mum just loved me sooo much and wanted me to be safe.kids get hurt far too much,kidnapped,raped,,, all sorts of horrifying things you will soon enough learn about.she is just trying to keep you safe. Maybe explain that you know that to her and that you want to earn her trust that in a bad situation you know what you would have to do to keep safe. As for the brother thing I don't understand that and if it just because your a girl it isn't on at all. You need to ask her why.you need to talk to her about it all calmly and responsibly. Maybe try writing her a letter,that way she can't interrupt you and it's less likely to turn into an argument because you won't be speaking on the spot and she will have time to calm down after reading it.maybe give it her before school and ask for a reply after school in letter form or email...

Have you done anything that might cause your Mom not to trust you.

She say im too scared

She doesn't trust you at all. What has to happen is, if she has or sends anyone to check on or be with you, that person has to say..No. He's 14 and can take care of himself.

I did that with my sister and nephew. Was the kid trustworthy? No. But he had to learn, and, at 14, was too old to be checked on or have me go over to stay with him. Sister asked, and I said no. Kid is 14, going to be 15 soon..He needs to be home by himself and not have his uncle (or anyone else) sitting with him.

What do you mean?