Is it normal that if my husband is angry with me he spanks my bare ass?

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The first time this happened was about 25 years ago. We had not been married long, about 6 months, I had forgotten to iron his clean shirt for work and had gone out to my cleaning job in the local pub. He had to do it himself and it made him late, when he came home that night he told me what had happened. He was still annoyed and he gave me a good spanking like a naughty child. I was wearing tight jeans at the time and he had to wrestle them off me against my protests, this made matters worse and he told me I would get a good spanking every night for a week if I didn’t stop fighting him. I didn’t stop so the following night I got the same, once again I protested and fought back so he told me from that day forward I was forbidden from was wearing jeans or trousers and could only wear skirts or dresses. I defied him on this as well so he went through all my clothes and cut up all my jeans and trousers. I defied him again and bought another pair of jeans, he was furious and cut these up as well. He told me that he was my husband and he expected me to do as I’m told, and that as he was so fed up having to fight my clothes off me to discipline me, I was to refrain from wearing knickers in the future as well. I was starting to feel beaten so told him if he let me keep the knickers I would only ever wear what he wanted. He basically said I should have thought of that before, I asked him how he expected me to manage during my period, he didn’t like that question and eventually agreed I could have knickers on for my period but that was the only time, and I had to let him know I was wearing them. I was feeling depressed and beaten down by all this, plus I was fed up with having a sore ass. I decided to conform with his wishes and have dressed this way for 25 years. I think he gave me a good spanking every day for about a month in those early days but since then it has just been on occasions when I have displeased him. Apart from the spankings, which I now just accept is part of who he is, he is always the perfect gentleman. He is a wonderful lover and always goes out of his way to make me happy.

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  • bitch27
    4 years ago

    disgusting. divorce him

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      I don’t want to divorce him, I accept him as the head of our family and I love him. I realise it might not be the most fashionable way of doing things but I don’t want to throw away over 25 years of marriage. I just wondered if others had this type of discipline in their family

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      • Boojum
        4 years ago

        If everything is so bleedin' marvellous in your life, why the hell are you here asking this question?

        Are you really so dim and socially isolated that you actually wonder if most women would willingly submit to spousal abuse by an inadequate twat with anger issues such as the one you're married to?

        You may well believe you love him and you might be so deluded that you focus on a few things he does and take them as an indication that he loves you, but he clearly doesn't respect you.

        As for him behaving this way because his father and grandfather did similar, so the fuck what? Emotionally mature adults have the intelligence to look at their parents with some degree of objectivity and they strive to not make the same mistakes in their relationships.

        I hope you don't have any children with this arsehole. The relationship between a child's parents plays a very important role in forming their expectations and the roles they will adopt when they get older and have a relationship of their own. The dickwad you're married to and the doormat they had as a mother were both very poor role models.

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago

        If a man even thought about trying that bullshit on me I would make him wish he were never born!

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  • ellnell
    4 years ago

    It's not normal unless you're into some kind of BDSM and have agreed on this, but since you haven't then it could definietely count as some form of abuse. Not normal.

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
    4 years ago

    Sounds like a cheesy porn story. If its not a troll I'd say it's not normal, but it's not the worst thing I've ever heard a husband doing. In some cultures that shit is more common but in America its not normal to spank your wife.

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    • RoseIsabella
      4 years ago

      Some cultures are inferior to others.

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      • Sad18yo
        4 years ago

        👏

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      • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
        4 years ago

        For sure

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    • leggs91200
      4 years ago

      I doubt it is just a story. I believed every word!

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  • Mcochik
    4 years ago

    I think it would’ve been hot if he wasn’t so angry and just said something like oh you bad girl and gave you a quick spanking which led to sex but to do it for weeks at a time and cut up clothes is a little strange maybe try one night getting really into it and see if it’s just a fantasy for him.

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  • TheBlindInquisitor
    4 years ago

    Your a grown ass woman so no it's not normal.

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  • d0esnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Haha pathetic troll. It's either made up entirely, or you actually like getting spanked like my gf does and you just pretend you don't.

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    • Sad18yo
      4 years ago

      Do you enjoy spanking her though? Sounds kinda hot but never tried it myself

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      • d0esnormalmatter
        4 years ago

        Yes I do very much enjoy it. 100% would recommend.

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  • LornaMae
    4 years ago

    Spankfic.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    4 years ago

    No I’m not a troll, we live in the UK. I think it was probably common practice about 80 or 90 years ago but not so much these days, but my husband is very old fashioned. He told me his father used to discipline his mother this way because it’s how his father (my husband’s grandfather) had done things.

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    • RoseIsabella
      4 years ago

      I personally think you're a troll just trying to trigger people, but I do want to say that I don't believe than men ought to have any authority over women in this sort of way. I could NEVER love anyone who thought he had those sort of rights over me, or any woman. I would gladly watch a domineering sort of man die in front of my face rather than ever lift a finger for him. I'm completely serious.

      ... and yes, I still think you're a troll.

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      • leggs91200
        4 years ago

        You know that whole anti-transgender argument where they say there are two genders - male and female.

        I guess some people believe the only two genders are - male and property.

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        • RoseIsabella
          4 years ago

          Ooo, that's a good one!

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          • leggs91200
            4 years ago

            Of course the weirdos who obsess over which restroom we piss in would have a "property" restroom.

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      • Sad18yo
        4 years ago

        Unfortunately as a male myself I must say I feel more and more everyday like 99% of men are absolute dirtbags.

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        • RoseIsabella
          4 years ago

          Thanks for your positive feedback. Continue to be the good, and decent man you are. 🤠👍🏻

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        4 years ago

        Why would you think I’m a troll? Maybe we don’t fit with what you consider to be normal but I’m sure people live in far worse situations. Admittedly when this started 25 years ago I was angry and fought back, I didn’t know what to do. I had previously owned a small flat but I had sold that and we used the money from it for a deposit to buy our first house just after we got married. If I left I would have nothing and nowhere to go I felt trapped at the time. We all like to think we live in a democracy but as my husband pointed out to me on many occasions at the time, you cannot have a democracy of 2 people because there is no one to cast the deciding vote in a disagreement. Only one person can be in charge and they must stamp their authority as head of household. Once I accepted that my life became so much easier. I feel that having a strong dominant man gives me security and makes me feel safe. He might occasionally feel the need to discipline me, but he has never attacked me in a drunken rage, he never uses bad language around me, he regularly buys me flowers and other little gifts for no reason other than he loves me. I also love the fact that he is very good with his hands and regardless of where we are, if I put on my sexiest voice, whisper sweet nothings to him and then ask him to give me an orgasm, he almost always obliges. I guess that’s one advantage of the way I dress. I posted this out of curiosity because I wondered how many other women had husbands that disciplined them in the way mine does, also I was feeling fed up as I had been spanked for something which I considered to be unreasonable blame placed on me.

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        • RoseIsabella
          4 years ago

          If any man tries to put his hands on me for any reason he's either gonna end up in jail, or the hospital. I would have called the police, and gotten a divorce attorney immediately after the first time any piece of shit guy put his hands on me.

          ...and yes, your response still sounds like the musings of a troll who watches too much pornography, from deep within his mama's basement.

          If you're sincere you should just call the cops on him, and divorce him! It's not normal for women in modern Western society to allow men to dominate, oppress and abuse them.

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