Is it normal that i voluntarily stopped having sex 10 years ago?

I used to have sex with many people , people from all over the world aged from 18 to 50. I could pick up a one night stand without even trying. I still have georgeous 20-30 year olds wanting to go out with me. Also sex workers are readily available and very inexpensive where i live. But around/atleast 10 years ago i just stopped.
I still look and get turned on by hot looking people. I still masterbate regularly and have a good level of fitness.
Am i normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • It's overrated anyway.

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  • What you are saying is that you can control yourself, I have been like this forever, I have sex with a woman I fall in love with, I can't do casual

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  • It took me a few partners, both casual and romantic ones, to realize I wasn't really all that into sex. It's not much better than self pleasure and in some cases it's actually worse.

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  • I think casual sex is too risky for something so meaningless. As far as I'm concerned the best sex has always been with someone I'm deeply in love with, and in the confines of a monogamous relationship.

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  • I learned in my 20's that a good relatinship was more valuable than just good sex.

    Also, good relationships tended to have decent sex, and in some cases some of the best sex I have ever had.

    So I look for good relationships first, and then may get sexually involved.

    Sex for just sex sake... does get old for most people.

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  • There’s no point in having sex if you don’t want to and it’s nobody else’s business anyway.

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  • It is totally fine to stop having sex.

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  • I won't pretend to understand it because I can't imagine not wanting to have sex.

    However, if you genuinely don't want to then it would be ridiculous to force it. There are plenty of other things going on in life. As long as you are happy and aren't in a monogamous relationship with someone who does want sex, then I don't see the harm.

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