Is it normal that i still care about my abusive ex?
I dated this girl for about a year and half and recently broke up with her when I found out she cheated on me. In the relationship she would emotionally manipulate me, publicly embarrass me by talking shit about me, she would scratch/punch/pull my hair when she was mad, and she would call me worthless and a piece of shit if I messed up little things like be late for the bus.
Despite all of that I wouldn't break up with her because she was extremely suicidal. The last time we broke up she downed half a bottle of painkillers and was rushed to the hospital and I got back with her because I didn't want her to do it again. The second time was a few days ago, but I took her to the hospital before she could do anything.
My question is,is it normal that I don't want her to kill herself despite all the trauma she's put me through? Or should I just leave her be for good and not worry about what happens to her?