Is it normal that i'm 22 and sex seems outside my realm of possibilities?

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It just seems like something surreal to me at this point. Obviously, being in college, I'm surrounded by it, but every day that goes by it seems like it's going to be harder and harder to do.

It also really sucks because sometimes when I text girls they ask me if I'm a virgin and when I answer truthfully they say something along the lines of "Oh I thought so". I don't consider myself to be bad looking at all, and I remember one of them saying that she could just tell by the way I texted/communicated. So I'm wondering if there are possibly some red flags that girls might identify as a sign that I'm a virgin, because oftentimes they lose interest because of it... Furthering my discouragement and decreasing my confidence.

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  • TimmyTheTurtle
    9 years ago

    step ya game up boy... i'll take you under my wing :D

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  • ews4
    8 years ago

    Can you not lie about being a virgin. A small price to pay for being fucked.

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  • thr
    9 years ago

    Chances are, there are a couple of girls attending your college whose situation is similar to yours. Just something to think about if it helps you.

    I really shouldn't be dishing out advice, but I think TimmyTheTurtle is right. The world can be tough and it hasn't promised you anything. Have the courage to go for what you want, and fake some courage if you're lacking.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Life becomes easier when you accept the whole world is against you.

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  • theseeker
    9 years ago

    Well, if you keep getting shot down be these girls I would be honest and ask them what it is about you that turned them off. You have nothing to lose and I would think at least one girl would give you an answer. It's the only way you're ever going to really know exactly what you're doing wrong.

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  • JustARandomNerd
    9 years ago

    If you feel awkward about being a virgin just go with the religious saving it for marriage act.

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