Is it normal that i locked my bf out
My bf was supposed to come over to my house last night but then we ended up getting into argument and I told him not to come. He said he would show up anyway and I told him that if he drove the hour and 30 mins all the way over to my house, I would not open the door.
He showed up and I didn’t let him in, I thought it was crazy and ridiculous that he would drive all the way to my house uninvited when I specifically told him not to. So I didn’t let him in and he was knocking for like an hour outside. We were arguing on the phone which led to us breaking up for other reasons, but I still feel bad about locking him out.
He’s been to my house many times and my house is like a second home for him but it’s still my house. Is it fucked up that I locked him out ? Would you have done the same ?