Is it normal that i have no sympathy for bullied children?

Being bullied may not have have turned you into a pushover, but it's certainly turned you into a cruel adult with no empathy for others.

So you reckon it's ok to bully people with disabilities or other differences, or sick people or old people? I reckon you're a prime example of why bullying is a bad thing for everyone.

I was bullied for being Autistic. I could not change that even if I wanted to.

Normal for someone with stunted emotional development.

I agree with you that being bullied is inevitable for most and can be used for a life lesson, but i don’t see why you cant also be sympathetic about it.

It just made me more introverted and suspicious of everyone's motives.Therefore no it did not help me.

So what about when adults bully each other or even children?

Is it just the receiver of the abuse “asking for it”

A lot of people get molested, beaten, or stolen from. Does that make it ok? You sound like a ripe sociopath.

I agree with some of this
But I grew up in the 90s, I was bullied but it was confined to the schoolyard (except for occasions where I was chased or followed outside of school)
But there was escape. There was school holidays. Once I was home I could read a book, or pour myself into art. The problem now is that bullying is 24/7 because they are screenagers and they are bullied online as well. When you’re a teenager high school is your world you don’t really see that one day it’s over and you’re released into the adult world and you can leave it all behind.
So I have some sympathy.
But then on the other hand I think being bashed was the best thing that ever happened in terms of my manhood

Ok, what about consequences?
You get bullied, so you fight back.
put the kid in the hospital.
Hes messed up, for life.
You just call it a day and move on?
No, life doesnt work that way.
you end up in court.
your parents getting sued, you facing criminal charges.
Im not saying every case gos this way.
Ive seen it go this way.
I knew the man who was 1/2 blind after getting hit with a bat at age 11.
his life changed, irreversably in one instant.
Youre saying thats OK.

I had the same thing but with loud crying. When I was little my parents would beat me up if I cried, so I learned not to and since then it infuriates me when someone cries loudly.

But at the end, crying is important for
our health and bullying is toxic, people who caused us to think otherwise are the ones who need to improve themselves

I don't much like bullies. They use others for the self esteem building to get theirs.. Pedophiles do the same thing!

Probably not that abnormal for people that were bullied themselves and got through it okay, but that doesn't make it right. Most of the people I saw that were bullied, myself included, never got less weird as they got older. They just fell into weird cliques or had crappy school lives. Peer pressure is already a thing, there doesn't need to be a bully on top of it to make life worse.

Fuck, you are a ruthles bitch. Or do I mean toothless?

There is also not being bullied and having your shit together. I am sorry that happened to you, but glad you came out on top.

Depends, some kids are just born labled as "bully bait" only ones that don't fall into this cathegory are handicap kids. This kids should be left alone. Now if you're a momma's boy/girl or the teacher's ass kisser you deserve to be beaten to a pulp.

I agree with you that being bullied is inevitable for most and can be used for a life lesson, but i don’t see why you cant also be sympathetic about it.

When I went from Catholic school to public school, I was bullied immensely. I always remained myself through the years. But I did acquire a very ruff exterior. I have also, come to appreciate this, as people either fuck off, or try to be near me. As a result, I am surrounded by THE BEST fucking people someone could ask for.

I agree, OP.