Is it normal that fiance is bever satisfied with anything i do?

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I am in counseling. I did everything on honeydo list the exact way she asked and she went beserk and started screaming and calling me lazy. She asked the neighbour's opinion and they took my side . I said nothing and did not fight with her and she is boiling mad at me. I took the kid and dogs to the park after she took everything out of the trash and put it back where she had it in the first place.

I am not perfect , But I am frustrated because I bend over backward for her and she is still not happy. I can't even have my older kids over our house because she hates them. I take them out and they stay over my parent's house?

Neighbour guy said his wife and him never fought like this and she never acted this bad not even when she was in labor or when she was dying of cancer. The one Elderly neighbor lady referred me to this site and keeps asking if my youngest daughter and I are ok.

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Comments ( 14 )
  • McBean
    5 years ago

    She will be even worse after the wedding. Call the engagement off.

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    • RoseIsabella
      5 years ago

      Yep!

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Break off the engagement!

    Also I am a little curious as to what all you threw away that she dug out if the trash.

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  • Ummitsstillme
    5 years ago

    She sounds like a real sweetheart. Mary her ASAP before she gets whisked away by one of her many suitors.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    I would start looking for a new one. It's this bad and you want to marry it and deal with this crap forever? MOVE ON!

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    You need a new fiancé2.

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  • CozmoWank
    5 years ago

    Why are you with her?

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    • spongebob1983
      5 years ago

      Because, I am afraid of what will happen to my daughter if I leave. I am afraid she will get custody and hurt my daughter because she is mad at me.

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      • CozmoWank
        5 years ago

        She may be pulling this bullshit because she knows you won't do anything about it.

        I'd talk to a lawyer. You may have grounds for custody if you can prove she is an unfit mother. Are the older kids hers as well? Or are they from a previous relationship? It seems like they along with your neighbors would testify in your favor.

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        • spongebob1983
          5 years ago

          No the older ones are mine. I might see if they will do that. Her own grandma thinks I should leave and get custody. Thanks

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  • _Mehhhh_
    5 years ago

    Cut her out your life. Snip snip.

    She sounds abusive and parasitical, and she can miss you when you're gone.

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  • Nickvey
    5 years ago

    kick her to the curb. be the man your dad wasnt.

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    We hear only a few sketchy details of one side of the story, so it's impossible to judge who's behaving reasonably and who isn't.

    However, a relationship where one of the parties regularly goes "berserk", insults the other person, makes it clear they hate their children, and involves neighbours in personal disputes does not sound healthy or positive.

    What exactly are you getting out of this relationship? Do you feel a need to be abused and insulted?

    Children learn how to behave in relationships by observing the interactions of the adults they live with. Do you believe you're providing a good role model for your children? Would you like your youngest daughter to seek out a relationship like the one you have now when she's grown up? Would you be happy to see her deal with the challenges in the way you are now?

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    5 years ago

    She shouldn't be your fiancé.

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