Is it normal my boyfriend insisted on sex with lights on, then turned them off?

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My boyfriend was excited to be naked together with the lights on. I have a decent body, but I have had a baby and have some stretch marks. He started to kiss me and things were going well I thought.

Suddenly he became adamant about turning off the lights. He jumped up and turned them off. He then laid on his back, and would not continue. What happened? I am at a loss. We have not talked since, and I feel angry.

If you think he found me unattractive click not normal. Thanks for your help.

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  • charli.m
    10 years ago | pl

    Sounds like he has a serious case of being an arsehole.

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  • dick1983
    10 years ago

    I love to have the lights on this way I get to see your hot little body and you get to see mine. I love to show off my body and have people look at my body and stare at my big cock like they want to at least blow me. I don't care if you have a few stretch marks it still sounds like your hot. Don't ever let a guy make you feel way. Look at it like this if it does then he don't deserve you and there are to many people out there that would treat you like a queen.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    What a jerk. Seems like a bad candidate for a bf and a good candidate for the loser's pile.
    Dump the chump.

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    • RoseIsabella
      10 years ago

      Yes, she needs to dump him like big brown dog pile in the grass!

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    I think he knows better than us.

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    It doesn't seem as if he liked what he saw. I'm sorry if I come off as harsh to you but that's sadly the truth ... :/

    Ask him! Demand an answer.

    I seriously don't get why couples don't communicate ...

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  • Shelbs
    10 years ago

    What a loser.

    Don't equate his personal issue with your attractiveness.

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  • ajmst6
    10 years ago

    Ok, well I'm gonna take this in the other direction. Sometimes a guy will think he wants to do something, then chickens out at the last minute. The male imagination can get carried away so easily. For example, a man might think it hot to be naked with his girlfriend with the lights on, then he goes for it and realizes just how insecure HE really is about HIS body. Maybe he thinks you are the best he's ever had and feels you may reject him for some reason? Sometimes even the cockiest and most attractive men can be the most insecure about themselves. Hell, sometimes when I'm naked with my longterm boyfriend, I'm more concerned about how bad I may look to him, than whether or not he's even naked. Just saying, don't assume it's you :)

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    Maybe he got embarrassed of his own body and just got to nervous to continue.

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  • Mersaphe
    10 years ago

    Ia thinke hei didnto seeu facea bute changei hiso mindu

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  • SchizoidPsycho
    10 years ago

    Maybe he has erectile dysfunction

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