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So I am at this point where I am slowly beginning to trust people and begin to talk.
However I feel like my trust for everyone takes time for me to actually give them my trust.
Yeah. I take at least half a year to start trusting someone. In the beginning it's more about observing them and their intensions.
Yes, very normal, and in my opinion, how it should be. Any time I trusted too soon when I was younger, it came back to bite me in the ass.
Now, it takes me quite awhile to truly trust people, but it's worth it. The people who don't like the fact that I don't let them in super close right off the bat are usually the ones who are up to no good.
You don't have to trust everyone. Trust is not something that you need to just automatically give people, trust is something people should earn.