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Anytime someone's nice to me, there's a part of me that assumes that they want to fuck me. Doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman, there's something upstairs that makes me think they kinda, sorta wanna fuck. It's illogical and I don't act on these notions, but still.
It's not necessarily the case. Giving out compliments and being nice is just part and parcel of being a good human.
Maybe they are a man or woman of God, and they feel it's their divine duty to show respect which can be paid forward.
Of course, there may be the odd person who is only being nice to you because they want to smash, but they're the exception rather than the rule, more often than not.
Believe me. Not everyone wants to have sex with you. What country do you live in?
Not normal; but, there are enough Ladies who act that way.
There are many people (men and woman) who just are nice and helpful because they believe in being nice and helpful.
They have no expectations or thoughts of sex our of it. Now if you get into a long term friend/helper/mentor relationship it may well come up later when they know more about you as a person and if you match the kind of person they are looking for. But, that's a lot different than an immediate expectation or thought.
Of course, there are the jerks who expect some kind of reward for any nice treatment or assistance (and sex being a common one if you match their type).
I wish you the best in sorting them out.