Is it normal i think my father is a hypocrite?
So if I'm ever in pain but it's my fault I'm in pain (ate some bad food, broke a bone from free running) my dad won't be sympathetic. I've grown to be ok with this because it makes sense but lately he's been bitching about his life and I'm not sympathetic.
So he's always yelling that he deals with the children, does the washing, cooks dinner and does everything when, in reality, that's a gross understatement. Yeah, he looks after the kids (gets up early as fuck, deals with their whining etc) but I help out with cleaning nappies and I basically clean the house top to bottom every day as an unpaid chore. I'm ok with this so I don't bitch. My dad gets woken up early and he whines about it all day.
I feel it's hypocritical because this is self inflicted. Yeah, he has to get up early but if he never fucked my mam the problem wouldn't exist.
Also, he tells me to get up early when there's nothing to fucking do. He's not a bad guy but the fact that he expects sympathy from the pain the younger kids give him (offspring HE created) when he won't show it himself is annoying.