Is it normal i'm kind of afraid to tell him

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So one ok f my friends who've I've been crushing hard on finaly asked me out, so that means I'm not single anymore.
How should I tell my best friend/ex/fwb? Obiously I'm done doing stuff with him since I'm in a relationship now. I don't want to hurt his feelings cuz hes very protective over me but since I'm in a relationship I dont want to mess around anymore.

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litelander8

3 years ago

The crush asked you on a date so that means you’re not single anymore? That’s quick.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  He asked me out
  
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  - litelander8
    
    3 years ago
    
    Yeah. Generally one date doesn’t mean you’re going steady. That’s very respectful of you to end other relations but you may want to discuss with the new guy that y’all are monogamous. Just so he does the same.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      We are dating....
      
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      - bbrown95
        
        3 years ago
        
        So, did he ask you on a date or to be his girlfriend? Typically, people go on at least a few dates before deciding to make it official.
        
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      - litelander8
        
        3 years ago
        
        Ok..........
        
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        bbrown95
        
        3 years ago
        
        I'm guessing this is a high school relationship by the sounds of it, and typically just being asked out means you're "dating" in high school.
        
        Edit: Never mind, just read a comment stating the OP is over 20.
        
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sissycakes

3 years ago

Basically, I would just friendzone the man that you are not dating.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Yeah I'm going to and joke hope for the best
  
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XYXY

3 years ago

Thought this site was for grown ups

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Thought this site was not for dumbasses. I'm over 20 so fuck off I needed people's opinion cuz I still care for my friend
  
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  - XYXY
    
    3 years ago
    
    So if you’re over 20 why do you sound like a 12 year old you fucking moron
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      I don't need to prove myself to a dumbass
      
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RoseIsabella

3 years ago

What if after one date he decides you're not his cup of tea?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  He asked me out we are dating. He's liked me for a while but been busy with college
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    3 years ago
    
    Right on, well I hope that works out well. I'm relatively sure your friend might get booty hurt. If I were you I'd mentally prepare myself for that possibility.
    
    I guess you could just tell him that you can't mess around with him sexually anymore, and not offer any other explanation, because technically you don't owe this guy any in depth explanations about your personal life.
    
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buzzybimaybe

3 years ago

Whose cock is bigger anyway??

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Uh...I wouldn't know yet... Why does that matter?
  
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buzzybimaybe

3 years ago

Got to keep the other guy FWB that's cool man just fuck him every now and again you know guys are all cheaters anyways so then you have one up on them LOL

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Ok...but I'm not a cheater
  
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  - buzzybimaybe
    
    3 years ago
    
    I'm telling you you don't have to be a cheater he's going to cheat on you no matter what you're not cheating on him think of it that way cuz they can evacuate he's going to cheat on you anyways he's going to do it anyways he's going to do it anyways
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      How do you know hes going to cheat?
      
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      - buzzybimaybe
        
        3 years ago
        
        Because almost all guys cheat
        
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FromTheSouthWeirdMan

3 years ago

Tell him you cant fuck anymore unless he keeps it super secret

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Dude thats cheating. I'm not gonna
  
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