Is it normal i don't think women who date transwomen can be considered lesbians?

There's a lot of transwomen with penises who call themselves lesbians and the women who date them. But as a lesbian myself, I don't think any woman who likes dick, whether attached to a man or trans person, can be considered a lesbian. If we liked dick, we'd be straight or bisexual. I got called a TERF and transphobe because of this.

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  • Rumpelforeskin

    "Sleep with me or I'm going to go around soiling your reputation by calling you a transphobe and a TERF" sounds like rape to me.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    I've got one that never fails to piss off PC people in NY: Men who are into transgender women are not straight. They can scream at me until they're blue in the face, but nothing they say will convince me otherwise. XD

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  • MonteMetcalfe

    If people on the left consider you a TERF it's just another example of just how fucked up the left has gotten.

    If a guy likes dick he's gay or bi. If a woman likes dick she's straight or bi.

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  • Tinybird

    Totally normal to be sane

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  • kikilizzo

    Agreed.
    Lesbians do not crave dick. If a woman who dates women enjoy sex with someone who has a penis then she is bisexual. Not a lesbian.
    There's effeminate straight men, so if lesbians were into trans women they'd date those too as being around men with a lot of stereotypically feminine interests and personality traits can feel a lot like being around a woman.
    It's not offensive to have a sexual orientation either, as long as you are attracted to consenting adults. If we're gonna make that a bad thing again then that would be regressing society and going back to homophobia being the norm. It's called SEXuality after all, it's all about SEXual preferences and sex involves genitalia...
    You can also be romantically attracted to both genders but only sexually attracted to one of them, but even so if a woman who is only sexually attracted to female anatomy falls in love with a man or a trans woman she still won't desire a sexual relationship with that person and that does not make her a transphobe.
    I genuienly believe many modern day men who claim to be trans are typical lesbian-fetishists. They pretend to be women in order to try to manipulate lesbians into sleeping with them. There are otherwise pansexual people, and other trans women... Says a lot that they won't settle for their own kind really.

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    • Eggman

      There are case of bisexual people who won't date a trans person though. Again, it's about preferences.

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      • kikilizzo

        Yeah, it's usually called pansexual when a person is open to dating a trans person. Bisexual usually means being attracted to cis people, but I don't think that label is always used that way.

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  • Greywolf69

    Trans fems are still technically dudes with tits or chicks with dicks, depending on how you look at it, so if a girl is into them, they are likely either straight or bi (or at the very least bi-curious). If one trans fem is into another, then they are probably either gay or bi/bi-curious. If a trans woman is into a girl, idk, MAYBE straight or possibly bi/bi-curious. I don’t see any of them as lesbians.

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  • additionalexpression

    lesbians dont like dicks, they like women. would you call a straight woman a lesbian for dating a trans guy? i dont think so.

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  • cheatinggfadvocate

    no it's not normal. if we're using the term transwoman correctly anyway(which i'll take in good faith you are) then;

    i don't understand how a woman who is attracted to other women (btw you only ever see a person's secondary sexual characteristics, on first appearance you only have secondary sexual characteristics to go by) suddenly stops being a woman who is attracted to other women because the woman she's attracted to (due to the female secondary female characteristics keep in mind) was at one time a natal male?

    i'm gonna need you to elaborate on your logic here because it's kinda faulty. i assume you're a straight guy right? what's the first thing you notice about a woman? is it their chromosomes under a microscope or is it their primary sexual characteristic (that is, penis, if pre-SRS)?? if the former then try looking at pictures of women and look up how sex characteristics and sex hormones actually work (-sex- hormones. read my lips.. very very slowly.. S E X (as in sexual, from the latin sexus, meaning one's natal sex) s.e.x. *sex* _sex_ hormones... i wonder if _sex- hormones of one's -sex- has any important effects or influences on one's -sex- hmmm! - take your time btw google is your friennd i know basic biology is kinda hard to grasp for you people lmao)

    anyway if it's the latter then my question is why are you visiting locations where lesbian women & transwomen are walking around with their sexual characteristic is hanging out freely on display? is there some kind of weird psychological projection going on here? are you thinking of transitioning? i don't understand how you're such a walking living breathing compressed unadulterated concentrated pure black hole of a human question mark.

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    • I said I was a lesbian, but this post is old. You can think whatever you want. I don't consider anyone who likes penis to be a lesbian. Same for gay men. No gay man likes vagina. It is what it is.

      By your logic, lesbians should like effeminate looking cis men. Because you can't see their penis either.

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  • JellyBeanBandit

    I disagree, I don't think you're a transphobe just for having this opinion though (as long as you're not prejudiced towards trans people). But I think being straight/gay is more about the person's general face and body, rather than their genitals. Genitals on their own are just that, it's the face/body they're attached to is what's important. Obviously some people would be put off by male genitals on a female body, and that's fine, it's not transphobic. But I don't think it makes a gay woman (or a straight man) bi just because they're still be attracted to women when they have different genitals.

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  • Anonnet

    I'd say it depends on if the penis is still there or not. Then again, I guess I'd be called some new word just for *that* statement, so I have to vote Yes.

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  • AsterBean

    Why are we all so focused on labels? It's not healthy.

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  • Wow3986

    You are a transphobe.

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    • Youareafuckingidiot.

      aka normal person who doesn't get horny to the shriveled dick and balls of a deranged narcissist. I support your trolling tho

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      • Wow3986

        Not trolling. And trans people are not "deranged narcissists". You're just projecting.

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        • Youareafuckingidiot.

          Definitely trolling. we arent talking about trans people here. we are talking about the men who think identifying as trans entitles them to lesbian pussy. now you could say, oh thats just anectodal. but 'TERF' is a well established epithet used for mass scale gasslighting and guess what, it's only used against women. i'll throw you a bone and say there are actually some attractive + mentally feminine transwomen but they are increasingly rare, i can only think of 1 off hand. the point is that rape is not feminine, look at statistics. so whoever thinks their dick belongs in a lesbian is not a woman. and how is it not narcissistic to demand everyone play into your obsession with your own body image?

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          • Wow3986

            I'm not going to read this nonsense.

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  • Orphan

    U are not a terf or a transphobe for having a sexual orientation. Who ever said u should suck dick because they are a woman is a fucking sexual predator and probably reported u to the cops saying u were a sexual predator. These social parasites should be confined to a tight space for the rest of their lives.
    Not all Trans are sexual predators though I know

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  • Wow3986

    I never said "fuck someone with a dick". She's transphobic because she's being prejudiced to transwomen by saying they are not really women. I never said "suck the dick bigot". You just made that up. F- on the attempt on trolling.

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  • Orphan

    Just that there are more than 2 genders

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  • HannibleSmith

    "trans" people are confused trans women are just effeminate men who man or may not be gay to say its anything els is just wrong

    and there is nothing wrong with being an effeminate man who does or does not dick either way

    the wrong part is trying to change the language to prevent people judging you because that's going to happen your whole live regardless get over it you will feel better

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  • lelouch82

    Straight women aren't visually aroused by penis like men are aroused by boobs and butts, that's just reality.

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  • lelouch82

    I only prefer women that aren't transwomen. Anyone who tells me otherwise needs to get lost already. Transcrap to me is out of the question.

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  • Wow3986

    Yes if you identify as a gender neutral goose with turret gun people should respect your pronouns and if they don't, they're bigoted.

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    • lelouch82

      Wow, someone's a total SJWhiner, just shut the fuck up and stop with your crybaby nonsense already you piece of shit.

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  • Wow3986

    It's 2022 people can identify as whatever they want, you transphobic misogynistic bigot.

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  • Wow3986

    "BIOLOGY" "BIOLOGY" "IT's BiOloGy!".

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  • Wow3986

    You are a transphobe. You don't have a good counter argument either. People can identify as whatever they want.

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  • Wow3986

    Yeah they are. You're just transphobic.

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  • Wow3986

    Nope, not being a hypocrite because I'M not a rapist, unlike some of you.

    Btw telling me to "suck the dick bigot" is the equivalent to rape.

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  • capman

    It's all mental, he is actually a man with a sex issue?

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