Is it normal how should i handle this?

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So I paid for my nieces and nephews to go to camp and all kinds of art singing classes and summer programs so they don't have to deal with my sister's mean bf who keeps telling me he has all the power. I take them to a waterpark. Both parents says it is cool.

Then the crazy bf who is not the dad shows up with my sister and starts a big scene and tries to fight me. He has a knife and probably a gun.He says the kids are coming with him and I am like the bio dad said I was supposed to have them and take them to their other grandma's bday party later.my sister says if you take them in the car I will file kidnapping charges against you.

I try and call the bio dad. No Answer.Two hours later , bio dad calls screaming because bf and my sister say I kidnapped them and won't give them back.When in reality , they ended being at the bf house with his mom taking a nap. The bio dad's mom said she totally gets it and hugged me and said the bf did this to her too.

But the bio dad my sister and the bf is all furious at me and said I will never see the kids again because I obviously don't care about them.The bio dad is mad I don't want to be his handler anymore and that I can only watch them mon wednesday and Friday because I work and take care of my elderly mother.I seriously don't know what to do.

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  • Ellenna
    6 years ago

    Hard as it will be for you, I don't think you have much choice but to get out of this situation with these disfunctional people and just stay away. You're being used and are caught in the middle of a messy situation - no good for you or for the kids.

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    • jellofishes
      6 years ago

      I want to walk away so bad, but the kids are all stressed out and they have lost so many people already.

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      • Ellenna
        6 years ago

        Can you possibly focus on the fact that you are having contact with them 3 days a week, which is more access than some non-custodial parents have. Just enjoy your time with them and stay out of the rest of it, because you can't fix other people

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    That sounds awful, I'm sorry your sister is with a scumbag.

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  • Ratmanforelife
    6 years ago

    Either see a lawyer or call the cops. This a custody/visitation issue. If you don't have a legal ground to stand on, butt out. You care but nothing you can do.

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    • jellofishes
      6 years ago

      can you get a public defender for cases like this.I am seeing them but It gets stupider every day. Like the bio dad and my sister's bf are fighting all the time. And the bf won't tell us what time they are supposed to go back to the bio dad's house but the bio dad gets mad if we call him.

      Then the bf gave the kids starbucks at like 7 o clock at night and they stayed up late for us and then the bf called the bio dad and told them this and now the bio dad is mad at us also we forgot their cellphone charger which caused a huge a fight.

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  • jellofishes
    6 years ago

    Thanks. I don't want the kids to think I don't care about them.

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  • MR.mr
    6 years ago

    there isn't anything you can do, unless you've got got 50 grand burning a hole in your pocket and time for a long expensive legal battle with low chances of success.

    I'm sorry I've seen people manipulated this way, my half sister did this with my parents when she had kids. My dad who wasn't actually related to them grew very close with the them, we even raised the oldest on their own for his first 8 months because she had him in prison, but the moment she got out and realized they wouldn't let her do whatever she wanted she'd leave until she needed something again.

    He finally had to just walk away and try to forget about them because they're was nothing he could do and it hurt too much.

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