Is it normal gf&friends trying to /convince/ me that i’m trans

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I’ll admit I’m not the most masculine guy out there, and I’m pretty quiet and a bit of a pushover, which helped this whole situation spiral out of control.

My girlfriend and her friends are trying to /convince/ me that I’m transgender and experiencing gender dysmorphia.
After I expressed to her that I’d been feeling a little down lately and unhappy how I see myself.

I’ve always dressed very clean, shave everything, and I put makeup over my small facial scars which I understand can be seen as feminine. But I don’t feel like a woman stuck in a mans body, I don’t feel better about myself if I’m wearing feminine clothing or fucking makeup.

I’m not fucking trans and she’s shoving this narrative down my throat for god knows what fucking reason and it’s left me in this silenced, humiliated, state of shit.

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  • Tealights
    4 years ago | pl

    It's time to break up. A relationship is suppose to bring you happiness, not make you feel worse.

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  • dimwitted
    4 years ago | pl

    This is just sad. She can't accept you for you so she has to slap a label on it. You have to bail.

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  • curious-bunny
    4 years ago

    Guys in other cultures wear makeup. Who doesnt want to be attractive? Tell the one of the trannies on here said your not. At any rate if they keep pestering you about it leave. Tryst me. Last thing yo uh want is her to start feninizing you. Hormonal meds are easy to get and if you share an apartment together well.. expensive but easy. Point being if she cant accept you as you leave

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  • Primus
    4 years ago

    Fag hag huh? Dump her and her shit crew.

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  • DeathXN
    4 years ago

    Nope, not normal.

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Honestly this is very fucked up and I would suggest you just leave.

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    Maybe your girlfriend, and her little friends are just bunch of little bitches? Only you know if you're trans, or not. Don't let other people pressure you into believing things about yourself that are not actually true. Teenage girls can be triflin ass, little bitches. Maybe you would be better off without your stupid girlfriend.

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  • gusmax
    4 years ago

    If there is someone that can tell what you're feeling, this one is yourself. If you're really trans or not, you need to discover it by yourself. She's being a dickhead by trying to shove it down your throat, but maybe she's just trying to help. Talk to her about it.

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  • bbrown95
    4 years ago

    Nobody gets to decide if you are transgender except for you, and what they are doing is weird and creepy. I'd ditch them if I were you.

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  • ohyouknow
    4 years ago

    Not sure of your exact situation, but maybe she's just suggesting it as a possibility--don't get defensive if the intent is innocent. It'll just make you look like you're in denial if you get super angry. If it's really persistent, though, then yeah, not normal. Consider a break-up.

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  • megadriver
    4 years ago

    Your girlfriend sounds like an asshole... That's just abuse, or maybe a fucked up fetish of her. Either way - bad.

    Either confront her and have a very serious talk about respect, or dump her.

    If someone tried convincing me I'm something I'm definitely not, I'll tell them off very bluntly, rudely and with a lot of profanity.

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    • leggs91200
      4 years ago

      Would you use words like "heck", "poo", "Gosh dang it" and "fiddle sticks"?

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      • megadriver
        4 years ago

        You bet, I'll also use dangnabbit, double drat, triple drat, flipping and even jinkies!

        When I curse, I curse properly XD

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        • leggs91200
          4 years ago

          You know, I do not know if you are familiar with this lovely little tune but around 1:05 it starts the first chorus. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tHI1uEQLjCk
          He is screaming "FUCK IT!!! FUCK IT!!!...."
          If you ARE familiar, how funny would it be in concert if he censored and was saying "DANG IT!!! DANG IT!!!..."

          When he says he wasn't born with enough middle fingers, I wonder if he means he is missing one on one of his hands?

          For the rest - here is megadriver using profanity -
          https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wWYFxekoAsM
          The entire episode is funny if you care to watch but those are the worst tantrums.

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    4 years ago

    People often hate when things (including people) don't fit into their predefined boxes, it shakes their understanding of the world. So they try to squeeze people into those boxes when they just don't fit, rather than try to redefine their view of the world.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    4 years ago

    If I'm recalling correctly, my boyfriend once told me that his ex friends and ex girlfriend kept accusing him of being transgender because he likes feminine things, looks feminine, and doesn't have a deep voice. I guess my point is, I think you should make new friends and get a new girlfriend. The ones you have now are idiots.

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  • GaelicPotato
    4 years ago

    Jesus Christ those people are insane.

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