Is it normal for your best friend, friends, and aquantences to not help you
What would you do if you saw me struggling to get out of a river?
This is what happened:
So I was playing capture the flag with my best friend and her friends as well. I'm 21 and a female just so you guys know.
During the game we had to cross a river to get to the others, to start a different game, because it started raining and running around in humid wet weather wasn't fun anymore.
Everyone got across the river quickly and okay, but I didn't, it took me the longest and when I tried to get up the side of the bank I almost slipped and fell back down into the river. And I told everyone I couldn't swim at the begining of the game. But no one seemed to care or pay attention to my struggle. I ended up walking along the river till I found a hard enough surface to climb on and met up with the others.
I was annoyed how no one even asked if I was okay. Even some people were more worried about another girl who's shorter and smaller than me when she was crossing the river earlier.
I don't know why no one offered to help me, and there were some pretty rude akward moments after and before this game on that day, but I have no idea why.
Do you think it has to do with my weight? I'm not fat but I am chubby but also curvy too, so I don't look very heavy since most of my fat is collected around my thighs and on my chest. I only have a little on my belly and arms.