Is it normal for gay men to talk like they’re straight?
I’ve noticed certain gay men will “turn off” their usual flamboyant voices when speaking to me. For example, my neighbor next door... he’ll be on the phone speaking pretty loudly outside in his effeminite voice. But whenever I walk out there and say “Hey man, what’s up?” He responds “what’s up man?” In a much more masculine voice. I’ve experienced this with a few gay men before...