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Is it normal for a single or maybe even bored mom to want to do their daughter's boyfriend? Early 40s mom, with little to no sexual attention for a while now. Have two daughters both college age and their boyfriends are really nice. One even flirts a little.
im sure you can go find an unrelated dick to ride without endin up on jerry springer
Oh grow up, leave your daughters' boyfriends alone, even in your fantasies, and find yourself a lover of your own!
Of course, if the satisfaction of a socially unacceptable sex urge is more important to you than your own children and your future relationship with them, go ahead and act out your own selfishness.
What differentiates you from a mom who fucked her daughter's boyfriend and a normal person is if you do indeed, fuck your daughter's boyfriend. Its understandable to have certain thoughts pass by but its important not to give those thoughts so much weight and just consider it a passing thought. Ask yourself if its something you really believe in and worth destroying your relationship with your daughter with. Thoughts don't equal fact, and as long as you don't bring these fantasies to reality its all game.
Dont act on it unless you want your daughters to hate your guts the rest of their lives. Your daughters and their well being matter more than you liking male attention
Being intrigued by possibilities and even sexually aroused by those guys is fine and something not really under your complete control, but what you do about that is entirely a matter of choice.
I suspect if you were to try to imagine how you would have reacted if your mother had gone cougar on you when you were in your early twenties and dating, you'd come to the conclusion that it probably wouldn't have done much positive for your relationship with her.
It's perfectly normal for you to be very interested in sex, particularly since you're in the age range when women are typically most interested in it and you ain't getting much. If you're reasonably attractive, not a total asshole and you'd like to find out what it's like with a much younger guy now you have much more experience than you did at that age, then you're not asking for the moon. Some men in their twenties are seriously into the whole concept of being with an older woman who knows what she wants and knows how to make a guy very happy in the sack (and is maybe just a little bit grateful for their attention). But hitting on your daughters' boyfriends just because they're convenient and tickle your fancy would not be cool.
NO!!! Wanting to have sex with the boyfriends if one's daughters is BEYOND SELFISH, and it's WRONG! ... and YES, any mother who would have sexual relations with the boyfriends of her own daughters DESERVES TO BE JUDGED HARSHLY!!!
Great advice and my thinking as well. Thinking of the relationship with the daughter. Thought about one of the daughter's ex boyfriends before that didn't seem much better but the real kicker is I'm not sure if I "went out and found my own" that the daughters would give me the same courtesy.
If this phenomenon is actually normal then the porn I watch is WAY closer to reality then I thought it was.
Normal to think of it.
Before even thinking of acting on it you need to have a discussion with your daughters about sexual fantasies - where you identify that one of yours - and see how they react.
There is a slight chance that they would not object. But, otherwise, getting involved with their boyfriends will likely cause a lot more trouble between you and your daughter, etc. than it will ever be worth.
If you want sex; why not sign up as an available Sugar Baby... Plenty of men who are willing to meet you and provide you with sex (and potentially nice dates too).
I've had sex with three of my girl friend's mothers, the daughters all knew and were okay with it. I saw one of the mother's for many years after me and the girl had finished.
See I don't understand these posts cause if you raised them you shouldve taught them its normal to have sex with their boyfriends and then they just wouldnt care.
You realize children are capable of independent thought? There are plenty of ideas my parents, and other adults in positions of authority have tried to indoctrinate me into that I have entirely rejected. My mother has always maintained that I ought to think of her, and my sister as my best friends, but it's never been that way for me. There's nothing on Earth that could ever convince me that it would be okay to share a boyfriend with anyone ever. One of my best girlfriends back in Las Vegas is into polyamory, and I love her as a dear friend despite the fact that I could never accept, or understand certain beliefs she holds.
Reasonably intelligent people will always be capable of independent thought, because we are all born with something called freewill!
Invite him and the daughter to stay over for the holidays but say they need separate rooms because you don’t want them to bang in you house then go into the guys room ‘by mistake’ at night and see where things go.
That's a great way to completely destroy her relationship with her daughter! 😠
No, only a soulless, evil woman who is a truly terrible mother would think such a thing!
Good idea, I would also lock the daughter in her bedroom in case she tries to pay him a visit while they're fucking.