I think about my crush everyday, even though i saw him almost a year ago.

I developed a crush on a guy in september of 2017. The last time I met him was in may of 2018. I still think about him everyday. I start to think about him when I eat breakfast (I imagine conversations in my head). I then continue to think about him when I ride the bus to work (I wish he would sit next to me so I could rest my head on his chest). Every time I hear a love song he pops back into my head, and also every time I watch a romantic scene in a movie or tv show. When I go to bed at night I start to think about him again (I think about conversations we could have and wish he we was lying next to me). Why can't I just stop?

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Comments ( 10 )
  • merluca

    I wish it was that simple.. Trust me, it's not.

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  • SKDM007

    crushes are just that, crushes
    because it crushes you when you realise you can never be with them
    moving on is the way to go forward, you could try to speak to them and be friends first but if they arent willing to comply then their loss

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  • brutus

    Its normal, but find a new man who is available.

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  • bbrown95

    Yes, it's normal. I did this with a guy I felt I really clicked with, yet moved away and lost contact with, for a long time. It just takes time, sometimes a little longer for some than others, but you'll eventually get past it.

    I thought I read somewhere that it's common for crushes to last for up to two years. I'm not sure how accurate that is, but it doesn't seem too far fetched to me.

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    • merluca

      Thank you, that gives my peace.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Try to think about something else.

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    • shuggy-chan

      Haha

      “Heyy dummy, why don’tcha try finking of sumthin’ else. Ehhh?”

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      • RoseIsabella

        HAHAHA!

        Yeah, that was a lazy response on my part. I guess obsession is like a stray animal, it will never leave if ya feed it.

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        • shuggy-chan

          Awww see thats much more thoughtful

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          • RoseIsabella

            Thanks!

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