I never get asked out or approached, not even by confident guys
I don't think I am ugly and sometimes strangers compliment me by saying I am pretty or attractive. 5'7 and 130 lbs and never had a bf. Even moreso, I even see ugly women with bfs, so I wonder why I can't get one and what I am doing wrong. I don't understand why I never get asked out or approached, not even by confident guys. Yea, I don't dress in a sexy or a provocative way. Nor do I frequent bars or clubs very often, but I do try to go out in public. I don't even know which guys are in my league and I don't know how I should lower my standard because not even unattractive guys are after me. Even an unattractive guy cold approached and hit on a girl right in front of me, practically ignoring me.
It's like all the confident guys think I am ugly. Yet, It's like I only attract shy guys or guys who seem intimidated by me yet they seem attractive. I once caught a random guy staring at me in a train station and he looked away in embarrassment. Once in a blue moon, I see a guy stare at me openly and it looks like he is about to approach me but he never does it. Even though I find the guy attractive, I never do anything about it, like give him a signal or approach them myself, because it is usually the wrong time/place and this usually happens rarely and unexpectedly. But whenever I feel like I am at the right place and time for love, guys seem never notice me. When I put myself out there a little, its like absolutely no guys are interested in me at all. Guys only seem to notice me (but not approach or ask me out) at random, rare, and unexpected times during my life. I know I am only 21, but I want to experience love and dating since I have never experienced it before. I honestly don't know what's wrong with me because it even seems like many girls have the problem of many men approaching her but it isn't true in my case.