I'm a guy and i like to wear women's lingerie

93% Normal
23 Comments

I'm a guy and I love to dorn women's lingerie. I get in touch with my feminine and sexy side. But I'm straight and even a 6 ft. 5 in. behemoth. (Not fat though). Ever since I was a little boy I have liked wearing women's undergarments and panties. I used to dress up in bras and panties in the bathroom. It was so fun, but I wanted to enhance my sexuality. Eventually I stumbled upon lingerie in my mother's drawer. My heart was beating as if it was going to pop out!

Then one day my dad caught me asleep, and I was wearing lingerie. He almost had a panic attack. A few days later my mother and he gave me a sermon of why it's wrong for boys to wear women's clothing and garments.

So I stopped the fun and didn't have an interest for years to wear women's lingerie.

BUT recently I've been having thoughts of slipping into some sexy bustier and getting in touch with my feminine side. I'm even planning on buying a bustier with matching knickers and a g-string in some lingerie store.

Though I already know it's okay to wear women's lingerie, that societal norms and gender stereotypes corrode the ignorant b*s***ds into looking at that notion with disgust and strong disapproval, I'm thinking about coming out to friends and family.

Note that if you call me gay or sick you are wasting both our time. Go back to torturing yourself with silly gender role ideals.

Is it normal for a boy to like to wear women's lingerie?

Should I come out to family and friends?

Voting Results
93% Normal
Based on 763 votes (708 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 23 )
  • Crazydiamond
    14 years ago

    Why, in the name of holy fcuk, would you want to tell friends and family? If that's what floats your boat and it's not doing anyone else any harm then it's fine if you want to do that in private I guess. But telling friends and family would just weird them out unnecessarily. If you are just looking for someone else to talk to about this then from the other posts on here I'm sure you could find someone...

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
      -
    • AlienatedHuman
      14 years ago

      Because, in the name of holy fcuk, it has become a part of my daily life. They must be informed, but of course I won't get into the details of my "weird" actions. All they must know is that I enjoy such activity so they may not be shocked the next time they walk into my room, see me buying lingerie or hang drying said attire.

      You need to be tactful and consider "why in the name of holy fcuk" I would reveal this to others. Good day.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • hasalreadybeentaken
    7 years ago

    and i also ride on horses so it boost my ass so i have a great ass for a boy so i just look great i lingerie if i say it myself :D

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • hasalreadybeentaken
    7 years ago

    i am 14 and i love it, it feels so good on my skin i even use latex it just have that sexyness to it that a lot of mens clothes dont and i like to get in touch with my feminine side. i dont have plans on telling anyone though. i am straight and also like anal play and it is normal if it turns you on.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • onlyteasing
    7 years ago

    I like to wear lingerie too. It's perfectly normal but sharing it with family seems to me a bad idea. I hope you reconsider "coming out" to to your family. They each liking have their own sexual quirks or fantasies.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Maninix
    7 years ago

    I really love wearing my knickers they hug my every contour and are really lovely also they are comfy to wear. Why should women have all this,knickers are so nice to wear gender does not come in to it.more men should try wearing knickers.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Brownwolf55
    7 years ago

    I was 10 when I started, Jr. High, Highschool l'd dress when I got home from school. In the summer it was 5 days,a week. Enjoyed my summers, lingerie nylon stockings heel even makeup. I got very good at it and the only person that knew was my grandmother, and she said I did very well for a boy.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Maninix
    7 years ago

    I really love wearing knickers I wear them 24/7 and have a total addiction to them I could not go back to wearing boring men's undies .
    Maninix.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Maninix
    7 years ago

    Why Is it not normal knickers do not have male or female written on them I Iove wearing knickers.so what I am not gay.I just love lingerie

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Maninix
    8 years ago

    What is taboo about men wearing lingerie I personally find it veery sensual even going to the wc is nice I love seeing my undies round my ankles( yes I sit down to urinate)female undies are so lovely to wear.theyfeel a part of you,they hug you so blissful why can't men's underwear feel the same

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Maninix
    8 years ago

    I am 64 and I still love wearing lingerie what's wrong with that it is not crime of the century.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • wreckage
    8 years ago

    Marry me.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Nipps8190
    8 years ago

    I have done it since i was 10 im now almost 25 im telling friends and family soon if they don't like it or can't except me for who i am or what i like probably better off without them. But it's always nice to be able to get something like this off your chest. So i say tell them if they don't/can't except you for who you are then ignore them trust me the cold shoulder always works for friends at least, my parents are most likely going to disown me but I honestly don't give a f*ck.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • darrenward96
    8 years ago

    I'm transgender but me always need to know the sexy side has to come out whether its watching porn or wearing women's underwear and/or clothing go for it and if I get hate for telling you I'm transgender I. Don't care but youre better off telling friends and family you may lose some but life throws shit at you , you've just got to get up and carry on

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • memysecrets
    8 years ago

    I dont find anything wrong with wearing sexy lace lingerie or dressing in womens clothing,,i feel comfatable wearing and dressing in female clothing.i dont care what people think,,i wear what i want at home and wifes 4 girlfreinds go with us to our bush house for holidays and buy me sexy stuff to wear

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Basketball1078
    9 years ago

    Yes I do it also and no do NOT tell them

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • navyknicks3
    9 years ago

    When I was young (5) I took a pair of my sisters knickers and wore them. (Wonderful) I then when I started school was overcome by the navy bloomers and had to have a pair, which I took from the changing rooms, a used pair. I wore them for ages and it felt wonderful. To this day I have never changed, I still wear knickers and feel it is wonderful. I am now (60)

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Courtneigh
    12 years ago

    Nothing wrong I do it all the time, enjoy and love it !!!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • yinks94
    12 years ago

    Whoever you want to tell, you should tell, however, you may want to prepare yourself for the possibility of some negativity in response.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • xdresser
    13 years ago

    Hi well im one of those who love wearing sexual lingerie too. I always love checking out Best and Less and Target and K mart. For the sales. I love going to the sex shops and always come away with a bargan. I often dress in bra panties suspenders and stockings under my clothes . I have met a lot of women that love men in it too. I dearnt tell my family as they will disone me.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • memysecrets
      8 years ago

      I to am a fan of lingerie.people say its wrong for guys to wear sexy lingerie or to wear or dress in womens clothing,well sexy lace underwear was not just made for females.crossdressing has been around along time.i use to think there was something wrong with guys who wore lingerie or female clothing till i was 14 and began wearing my step moms clothing and she caught me and suported me buying me lingerie and skirts and dressers

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • Mechastar
    14 years ago

    it is normal... for a drag queen NEXT QUESTION

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    -3
    -3
      -
    • CDmale4fem
      7 years ago

      Here's next question, " Are you always going to be a narrow minded judgmental, seemingly arrogant piece of shit ?

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0