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To be more detailed, my fantasy is this girl having sex with a guy who was her boyfriend, and the fantasy take place during the time when the two were actually dating: aka they were both 16 to 17 years old. I met her when we were both around 15.
The ages don't matter at all. The fact that you're fantasizing about other people having sex with each other is weird unless you're attracted to both of them. Otherwise there may be a humiliation element here which some will tell you makes you interesting and bohemian. I'm here to tell you it's self-mutilation and you need either to insert yourself into the fantasy or to ditch it.
That or you're having guilt about her age in your fantasy, which is chickenshit. Fantasize about whoever you want. Just don't make yourself a chump in the story.
I'm the OP but using a different account since I forgot my last login.
It's not humiliation. I think it's because the fact they were a couple it makes the idea of the two of them banging way hotter in my opinion, if you get what I'm saying.
I guess for extra context to me at least, the two of them don't look any different now as compared to the two of them when they were dating.
"I'm here to tell you it's self-mutilation and you need either to insert yourself into the fantasy or to ditch it." Why?
Idk if its normal to fantasize but I have regrets of not having sex with this 15 year old chic when I was 17. She died in a car wreck and I never got to date her. She was really pretty and kew. Was hot too and she flirted with me.