I like these 2 guys but i have a "boyfriend"

I have a crush on these 2 guys and I don't know what I should do because I have a "BF". The reason I put "BF" is because whenever hes around other people he'll say that we're not dating while in reality we are. He's told me that he's check out other girls when we've been talking. I actually might have a chance with one of the guys I like but I don't know what I should do. Should I break up with my "BF" or just talk to him?

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  • Sounds like neither you or your BF take each other seriously, which is kinda unhealthy in a relationship. I suggest you to follow your heart and break up with him and try out with either of the two guy you are interested in. You only have one life, live it the way you want!

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  • fuck them both and Cuckold him

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  • If he is already looking around for others, he is not taking the relationship with you seriously enough. And you are obviously interested in someone else. Clear decision, break up with him. And make sure he understands the reasons too.

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  • Talk to him about it. Don't throw away what you've got for something that may never be, if what you'v got is a good thing.

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  • BF has no future if you're looking and wondering about two other guys now.

    Treat him like an old shoe, Dump him and try on a new pair.

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  • Break up with him.

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  • Just do like my old Pennsylvania Dutch great grandfather would do after he would drink a glass of warm water with lemon in it first thing in the morning... dump him, honey!

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  • Talk to him about what? That youre interest in other men or that he doesn't acknowledge your relationship in public.

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  • I'd talk to him about it; and perhaps you would both like to have the freedom to have other partners or to experiment on the side to figure it out; or perhaps it's time to end the sexual relationship between you.

    Just be sure that you have his permission for an open relationship if that's what you would like to try.

    Also, you owe it to the new person to explain up front if you have an active ongoing sexual relationship, or that it's over.

    Full disclosure and permission up front is the key for multiple active emotional/sexual relationships.

    I've had long term stable poly relationships for most of my life (since in my 20's). Most of these lasted for many years (longest was 14 years) and I normally had 2 active partners much of my life, and they almost always met at least once.

    I was always open about it up front - and always found willing partners. Truth works. Note that I also treated them well and as ladies. That does wonders too.

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  • Why are you dating someone who is obviously embarrassed of you? As Mark said neither of you seem invested in this “relationship” anyway so my advice is rip the bandaid off and move on.

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  • Id fuck them on the side

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